Instead of ignoring her (since she's clearly not getting it), sit her down and TELL her everything you're feeling.
But I kind of like the "dumping everything on her lawn" idea.
Yeah, I have to... she is too dumb to get that I am ignoring her.
She left golf clubs and a freakin' carseat in my house! She doesn't even have a kid!!!!
"If we don't live happily ever after at least we survive until the end of the week!" -Kermit the frog "I need the money... it costs a lot to look this cheap!" -Dolly P. "Oh please, Over at 'Gypsy' Patti LuPone hasn't even alienated her first daughter yet!" Mary Testa in "Xanadu" "...Like a drunk Chita Rivera!" Robin de Jesus in "In the Heights"
"B*tch, I don't know your life." -Xanadu After that if he still doesn't understand why you were uncomfortable and are now infuriated, kick him again but this time with Jazz Hands!!! -KillerTofuLOL why the hell does she have a carseat if she has no kid?!
OMG, Kels! I'd probably slap her if she did all of that to me. That's insane. And you really should dump her stuff on the lawn, just saying.
If it were me, that b*tch would have been dead long ago.
She has a reoccurring babysitting job, but she hasn't been watching him lately so she left the carseat at my place when we went to NYC.... it's really stupid because her apartment is, like, twice the size of my trailer (haha yep I live in a baby blue trailer.... yeehaw?).
"If we don't live happily ever after at least we survive until the end of the week!" -Kermit the frog "I need the money... it costs a lot to look this cheap!" -Dolly P. "Oh please, Over at 'Gypsy' Patti LuPone hasn't even alienated her first daughter yet!" Mary Testa in "Xanadu" "...Like a drunk Chita Rivera!" Robin de Jesus in "In the Heights"
"B*tch, I don't know your life." -Xanadu After that if he still doesn't understand why you were uncomfortable and are now infuriated, kick him again but this time with Jazz Hands!!! -KillerTofu
This girl sounds like a complete basket case.
Dump her stuff on your lawn, and THEN sit her down and explain to her what's up when she asks you about it. She sounds too stupid to realize that she's taking advantage of you and your friendship, and that's completely unacceptable. Tell her you're comfortable with who you are, and there's no reason she needs to try to change you, nor does she need to drag you into situations that you aren't and don't want to be involved with. I would cut her off entirely, if I were you. But not before you get your money back.
Oh, and $10 G's on a DUDE? That's just plain idiotic. WTF?
That's what my mom said! (About the $$ bail) She followed it with "I should call her mother in Vegas.... or better yet she should go LIVE with her mother in Vegas!"
I love my mom.
"If we don't live happily ever after at least we survive until the end of the week!" -Kermit the frog "I need the money... it costs a lot to look this cheap!" -Dolly P. "Oh please, Over at 'Gypsy' Patti LuPone hasn't even alienated her first daughter yet!" Mary Testa in "Xanadu" "...Like a drunk Chita Rivera!" Robin de Jesus in "In the Heights"
"B*tch, I don't know your life." -Xanadu After that if he still doesn't understand why you were uncomfortable and are now infuriated, kick him again but this time with Jazz Hands!!! -KillerTofuOh and if she can afford that bail then where the hell is my $50?!
"If we don't live happily ever after at least we survive until the end of the week!" -Kermit the frog "I need the money... it costs a lot to look this cheap!" -Dolly P. "Oh please, Over at 'Gypsy' Patti LuPone hasn't even alienated her first daughter yet!" Mary Testa in "Xanadu" "...Like a drunk Chita Rivera!" Robin de Jesus in "In the Heights"
"B*tch, I don't know your life." -Xanadu After that if he still doesn't understand why you were uncomfortable and are now infuriated, kick him again but this time with Jazz Hands!!! -KillerTofu
EXACTLY. You need to ask her that. This bitch (excuse me, but even I'm super mad over this) clearly has her priorities way out of whack.
How old is she? Why DOESN'T she go live with her mom?
She's almost 20 (I am one month older then her.... though it feels like 5 years older). She should go to Vegas and be with her mother because her mom is the only one who can control her...
I am not her freakin' family.
She's really judgmental and has recently developed some slightly homophobic tendencies.... which doesn't mesh well with me for SO many reasons.... but especially since my best friend, the person who truly means the world to me, is gay. Ugg, I cannot believe I let myself be a doormat with her!! I'm kinda angry at myself.
"If we don't live happily ever after at least we survive until the end of the week!" -Kermit the frog "I need the money... it costs a lot to look this cheap!" -Dolly P. "Oh please, Over at 'Gypsy' Patti LuPone hasn't even alienated her first daughter yet!" Mary Testa in "Xanadu" "...Like a drunk Chita Rivera!" Robin de Jesus in "In the Heights"
"B*tch, I don't know your life." -Xanadu After that if he still doesn't understand why you were uncomfortable and are now infuriated, kick him again but this time with Jazz Hands!!! -KillerTofu
Don't be! It's not remotely your fault, in any way. You probably didn't want to upset her, not to mention that it's hard to just get rid of a someone, no matter how much they suck as a person. After all, she's your friend. It's hard to be that ballsy! But it sounds like you've had it. Not to mention, the homophobia is just the icing on this **** cake.
Yeah, all these little (and big) pieces are coming together this really messed up picture!
I have to got do the grocery shopping (since she ate a bunch of my food!) I'll be back later!
"If we don't live happily ever after at least we survive until the end of the week!" -Kermit the frog "I need the money... it costs a lot to look this cheap!" -Dolly P. "Oh please, Over at 'Gypsy' Patti LuPone hasn't even alienated her first daughter yet!" Mary Testa in "Xanadu" "...Like a drunk Chita Rivera!" Robin de Jesus in "In the Heights"
"B*tch, I don't know your life." -Xanadu After that if he still doesn't understand why you were uncomfortable and are now infuriated, kick him again but this time with Jazz Hands!!! -KillerTofu
You need to get a restraining order for this chick!
And buy locks for all of your things lol
Ugh, I have to take a shower and get ready because the handbell choir is playing for confirmation at our church... this BETTER not run into Idol time or I will be mad
Stockard, since you are going to watch, PLEASE send Allison and Adam your good vibes if I don't get back in time!
Pianolin, I will!
Kels, I will merely echo the sentiments of the rest of the gang. Dump the bitch, ASAP!
So I went to Toronto today to have lunch with my friend, Brenda! She was up there from Florida for business this week.....It was a 2 hour drive, but I haven't seen her in like 8 years, so it was worth it! I had a yummy salad!
Ah! I love Toronto! I've been twice and it is seriously one of the cleanest cities I have ever been too! I'm glad you had fun with your friend!
Glad you had fun, Stockard! I love Toronto. Actually, I love Canada in its entirety.
So, ladies (and Piano), a life lesson: you know you make insanely poor choices when you're watching your DVRd episode of VH1's "Daisy of Love" premiere, look up, and realize that you've hooked up with one of the contestants before. These guys are bottom of the barrel, man. That is NOT GOOD. SO EMBARRASSING.
No Jag. That is AWESOME.
If by awesome, you mean lucky that I got him before the STDs did, then yes. Awesome. *weeps*
JAG! Which one? I watched that and couldn't believe her choices. SPILL, woman!
As long as it wasn't the Swedish triplets...lol.
Oh, I KNOW. They're all atrocious-looking. I hope I can still avidly make fun of it without feeling hypocritical, LOL!
But nay, it was not the triplets. It was London...you know, the classy one with the mohawk who passed out on the floor and was trashed at eliminations? He BARELY made it through. In my defense, he had hair at the time.
ETA: that's pretty much my only defense. Not one of my better decisions, I don't think.
Updated On: 4/28/09 at 07:30 PM
JAG, that's kind of incredible!! Haha I don't watch any of that stuff but I'm off to Google this person.
Don't judge me, please! He's slightly better looking in person. Kind of. A little bit?
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