"I first thought I might be gay when..."
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Joined: 12/31/69
#1"I first thought I might be gay when..."
Posted: 10/6/08 at 12:22pm
I first thought I might be gay when...
I went to a swim meet when I was around 10, and remember enjoying looking at the all the speedo-clad guys WAY too much. My parents wanted to leave after my cousin had finished his race, but I begged to stay. They thought I had finally found a sport I enjoyed.
#2re: 'I first thought I might be gay when...'
Posted: 10/6/08 at 12:25pm
I still blame my puberty-era poster of a shirtless Billy Idol for my being gay.
Still waiting to give Billy my rebel yell...
Roscoe
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/15/03
#2re: 'I first thought I might be gay when...'
Posted: 10/6/08 at 12:27pmwhen I realized I was looking way too closely at that DUKES OF HAZZARD poster at Walgreens.
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 12:44pmwhen i endlessly stared at Gene Kelly's perfect ass encased in tights in An American in Paris
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 12:50pmI played Wonder Woman for all the ladies at my mother's Methodist Women's Meeting....when Wonder Woman was on the air...at age 2...
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 3:30pmAge 7, fantasizing about the 2 Power Rangers who liked to fight shirtless together, then parade around in spandex.
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Joined: 12/31/69
#6re: 'I first thought I might be gay when...'
Posted: 10/6/08 at 3:39pm
'I first thought I might be gay when...'
I had sex with a guy.
#7re: 'I first thought I might be gay when...'
Posted: 10/6/08 at 3:43pm...I was born.
husk_charmer
Broadway Legend Joined: 10/19/06
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 3:44pm
BroomstickBoy-
I did the same thing!
roquat
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/25/05
#9re: 'I first thought I might be gay when...'
Posted: 10/6/08 at 3:45pm...I was in middle school and saw the cover of a Hardy Boys book ("When the Clock Ticked") featuring Frank and Joe bound and gagged and tied to two chairs. Those strapping, handsome young men absolutely helpless...oh, dear.
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 4:15pmWhen the guy toweling himself off in the Zest commercial excited me more than it should've.
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 4:20pm

this book is so funny, and is full of these kinds of stories and anecdotes. It makes a good coffee table book. Pick it up!
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 5:11pmHerb Ritts. "Fred With Tires." Done.
~Lina Lamont
My name wasn't, isn't, and will never be Scott.
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 6:16pm
Even though I was "active", I "knew" in high school when I followed a football player home, several times, and tried to talk to him.
I scored several touchdowns.
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 6:21pm
I have to join those who came out due to a poster. Mine was a Culture Club poster with a beautiful picture of Jon Moss (the drummer) I felt hypnotized every time I looked at him.
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Updated On: 10/6/08 at 06:21 PM
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 6:27pm
Sally, you mean like you were "hypothetically" gay?
and UNCAGEG, if your school's football players let you be "active" with them (meaning they were "passive") then i wish i'd have met the team! There is nothing like a receptive tight end.
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 6:36pmfixed it TxtwoStepper! See I get so excited thinking about that poster that I can't even type straight!
#17re: 'I first thought I might be gay when...'
Posted: 10/6/08 at 6:38pmIs he the one that was involved with Boy George?
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 6:42pmTx, the one I followed STILL calls me!!! GO TEAM! Problem is I am in Denver and he is in Philly! He is a bit of a stalker though and I tell my family not to let him know when I will be in town!
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Posted: 10/6/08 at 6:47pmYes, Jon Moss was one of Boy's many boys. There was a picture of the two kissing in a book at Spencer's gifts in the mall that I used to go stare at every chance I got. I never got the nerve to buy it though.
#20re: 'I first thought I might be gay when...'
Posted: 10/6/08 at 6:48pmwell once a pitcher makes that kind of connection with a catcher (sports analogy only, of course!), then it's hard to break the rhythm
#21re: 'I first thought I might be gay when...'
Posted: 10/6/08 at 6:51pmWell, I'm not gay (as far as I know), but I realized I'd hit puberty and the beginning of sexuality when I stopped fast-forwarding through all of the Rum Tum Tugger's scenes in "Cats."
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Posted: 10/7/08 at 11:29am

Jon Moss was pretty cute. A lot of those eighties guys were.
#23re: 'I first thought I might be gay when...'
Posted: 10/7/08 at 1:03pmI'm not gay, but I certainly questioned it after I saw Xanadu!!!
chickfila
Leading Actor Joined: 7/26/08
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Posted: 10/7/08 at 1:10pm
I knew I was gay while watching Ben-Hur and enjoying a young Charlton Heston, clad in a loincloth, chained and whipped on the slave war ship.
Also provided lots of clues to where I was heading in terms of types of "activities" I currently enjoy.
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