so there's this guy who flirts with me all the time and i know he wants to be with me as much as he won't admit it. he calls me stuff like "petal" and says its a generic term out there. but he also says "son" and wants me to call him "uncle" all of the sudden. he's obviously into role playing. but i think that his "son" and "uncle" is a little messed up, if not disturbing. what should i do?
This guy is obviously a wind up merchant! As a true northerner i can vouch that petal is a generic term. I think you need to look deeply within yourself and find that loving yourself is the true answer. You can't make people love you, and stalking them erans you a criminal record. I think you need to learn to see the humour in the guys messages and appreciate him for the friendship he provides.
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just a term... like hey dude! Lot's of regions in the UK have different ones... duck, sweetheart, darling, petal, chicken (an essex fave!) sunshine, son, mate or matey... too many to list!
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