Love is confusing.

#1

Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 4:53am

Can I get an AMEN?!

(please...?)

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#2

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 6:42am

umm... amen?

#3

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 10:08am

AMEN!!!

#4

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 10:15am

Ahhh Parks.....

You don't need analyzing It is not so surprising
That you feel very strange but nice
Your heart goes pitter patter
I know just what's the matter
Because I've been there once or twice
Put your head on my shoulder
You need someone who's older
A rubdown with a velvet glove
There is nothing you can take
To relieve that pleasant ache
You're not sick You're just in love

#5

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 10:23am

Love changes everything. It also saddles you with a mortgage and three kids.

#6

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 10:25am

ohhhh parks...story of my life! now i'm just afraid of it!

Updated On: 8/9/05 at 10:25 AM

#7

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 10:28am

Haha.

The harsh truth, courtesy of brdlwyr.

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#8

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 11:56am

C'mon Parks, tell us what's going on! Yesterday you were moping that you were unemployed and living with Mom, today you are in love. Let's hear!

#9

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 12:00pm

sometimes boys love girls.

sometimes boys love boys.

sometimes girls love girls.

love makes the world go around.

love lifts us up where we belong.

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#10

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 4:06pm

*siiigh* my love life is so stupid.

I'm almost positive that I'm in love with this person, but I'm not sure if they are returning the feelings...they give me hints...but I'm not sure.

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"If it walks like a Parks, if it wobbles like a Parks, then it's definitely fat and nobody loves it." --MA

#11

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 4:25pm

Oy, love. Don't get me started.

I'm a jaded cynic, anyway. XD

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#12

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 4:30pm

That's a funny little pronoun game you're playing there.

#13

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 4:35pm

this person ....this person is so wonderful. they help me when I'm down, I never have to ask for a favor, it's like they know when I need something. I just don't feel like committing until I decypher the gender of this person.

c'mon Parks. You're young but not that young. You figured some of us would pick up on your gender neutral wording.

But having said that, amen! L_O_V_E can be a bitch.

Updated On: 8/9/05 at 04:35 PM

#14

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 4:39pm

"They?" Are you dating a group? ****that WOULD be hard!****

I know all there is to know about The Pronoun Game...

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Mind is Mantra.

Updated On: 8/9/05 at 04:39 PM

#15

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 4:43pm

I thought about that too. Can "they" be used in singular?

Parks, we are just kidding. Love is hard. but also exciting and rewarding. Hang in there.

Updated On: 8/9/05 at 04:43 PM

#16

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 4:52pm

Love IS hard. But it's also VERY much worth the risk. Just be honest with this person, don't play games, and see where it takes you.

#17

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 4:54pm

Awww...

Who needs a reach around?

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#18

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 4:59pm

Parks run away. Beware of over the hill posters offering hugs to teenagers!

Next thing you know he'll be inviting you to his "hacienda."

Updated On: 8/9/05 at 04:59 PM

#19

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 5:41pm

Parks don't listen to them! Come on over to my hacienda, have some drugs and relax!

No seriously

My assessment is that 99.9% of all "love problems" come because one party is not honest with the other. Tell him you are interested and see what happens. If he isn't then at least you took your shot, but at least you tried.

And no matter how it feels, if you are honest and upfront, it doesn't hurt for long. Best of luck!

#20

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 5:47pm

I remember my first love. He had the locker next to mine and I could not get him out of my head! We had study hall together and I got all these mixed messages. After our senior year we spent the summer playing tennis and one night I called him and asked to meet him at a Sonic(this was Arkansas) I told him I was in love with him and he was very nice but basically told me to go to church and pray...ouch! I cried for a whole day.

#21

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 5:58pm

I agree with Joe. Just tell them you have feelings for them. Worst case scenario, the feelings aren't mutual. Best case, they are. Believe me, wondering whether or not they like/love you is a lot worse than knowing whether or not they like/love you.

#22

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 6:50pm

...I'm waiting for the *right* moment.

(give me a few weeks to get into better shape and get my braces off :-P)

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"If it walks like a Parks, if it wobbles like a Parks, then it's definitely fat and nobody loves it." --MA

#23

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 6:55pm

LOL! I don't think your braces will matter...but whatever makes YOU feel more confident!

#24

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 6:59pm

Yeah...braces definitely don't igve me confidence.

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"If it walks like a Parks, if it wobbles like a Parks, then it's definitely fat and nobody loves it." --MA

#25

re: Love is confusing.

Posted: 8/9/05 at 7:13pm

you are perfect just the way you are. In a weeks you will still be perfect. To be worthy of love you don't need to wait until the pimple fades or you drop those pounds or you get the right outfit. You are done! The timer has rung and you are ready to be served! Buen Provecho.(Bon Appetit)