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#101

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

Chat?
Have I ever shown you my Shattered Dreams box? It's in my Disappointment Closet. - Marge Simpson
#102

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

I'm just gonna bow out of chatting with you as if this is a conversation we're having Rath, if it's all the same to you. I know how you love to step into the middle of threads that are anything but bullcrap niceities and virtual hugs and to knock them off topic with two word personal conversations with people, but really, I just don't find your sanctimoniousness all that interesting. See you next Tuesday.
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#103

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

Yes, you do know everything, don't you, Namo? You know us all better than we know ourselves, and we are all just so grateful. I don't know how we got through life without your educated diagnoses of all of our issues.


Have I ever shown you my Shattered Dreams box? It's in my Disappointment Closet. - Marge Simpson
#104

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

What I simply do not understand Rath, is why you always fall back on that point. Did you never take literature courses in college or something? WHAT is so hard to understand about reading somebody's posts, or lots of people's posts, and seeing the generative themes that come up over time?

It's not diagnostic, it's reading and staying alert to the subtext that comes through over time. It's not possible to get a grasp of these things about a person in a single post, but I think you're having a hard time seeing that a prolific poster such as yourself DOES reveal a lot over time.

If you don't think it's possible over a period of many months to get a general sense of where a poster is coming from by the many responses they have to all sorts of topics, fine. But it is possible to do that.

Just reading the many many times you have rushed to the defense of pre-packaged lip-synching pop stars no matter how talentless and watching you criticize people who write negatively of them because it's "not nice" and they're "just kids" and juxtaposing the positively vicious things you have written about Betty Buckley, to site one obvious example, is just straight out of the compare and contrast handbook. And says a hell of a lot about you.

I know you got all bent out of shape when I suggested that fundamentally you have a very conservative political response to a host of issues, which you have definitely demonstrated over time (remember the "this place is so tilted in the OTHER direction" diatribe?). You then always fall back on this "we" and "us" thing when I point this stuff out. "We are so grateful to your insight to all of us." As if broadening out what you reveal about yourself and what I comment upon to the whole rest of the board is even what I have done. I'm just talking about YOU Rath, not everybody.

I explain this, and then you respond, almost inevitably, with some comment about how there aren't huge numbers of people who agree with I say and there are more who are sick of me and I think, "Who ever said I want huge numbers of people who agree with me?" I just want smart people with the ability to analyze and think clearly and who attempt to articulate creatively to agree with me. Which is I think where things break down between you and me.

For the record, for once and for all. I do NOT think I am better than anybody. I do not write so that large numbers of people will agree with me. I write to express thoughts *I* have. I do not set myself up as an expert, this is just a construct YOU bring up to shut me down again and again. I just write what I think. I am not bitter, angry or jaded.

I have never said I know everything. Never.

"You know us all better than we know ourselves, and we are all just so grateful. I don't know how we got through life without your educated diagnoses of all of our issues."

I never said that either. Anybody looking to get insight into your personality, such as it is, need look no further than you projecting that crap all over me. THAT, Rath, is all YOUR fantasy.

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#105

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

Wow. I guess you told me.
Have I ever shown you my Shattered Dreams box? It's in my Disappointment Closet. - Marge Simpson
#106

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

Dear Guys,

First off, it never ceases to amaze me when I hear that name (or nickname) is used in a sentence on BWW. I can't believe that anyone would remember--or want to remember, someone who went out of his way to provoke a multitude of people.

I have no interest in doing that anymore, and since that was my general MO, and one that I will always be viewed as having here, it's best to just move on ...

...Also, I haven't seen a Broadway show in a year.....thus, to post on a "Broadway board" is rather silly..

Some things just end. That's all...nothing personal. I would say that most people who write here are decent, good people; and spending any more time trying to incite a riot or something stupid like that just doesn't make any sense.

Yes, it is true, I occasionally take a quick look when alerted to something interesting, but other than that I just don't have much of an idea what's going on here anymore. I have a full time job that leaves me sweating bullets on a daily basis so that kills a lot of the day.

BWW certainly has come a long way. It looks very news heavy and it looks like a ton of kids have a presence, which, I guess, is a good thing.

Don't worry PattiB; you wouldn't have upset my feelings.... I took my writing as seriously as most of my readers here, which is not saying much. And my "followers" were as short-lived as a Kristin Chenoweth Sitcom.

I don't expect many would care but I am fine. Indeed, I am alive. Not dead, bleeding, jobless, loveless or anything like that.

I have returned to my first love which is not writing (I'm sure there is a collective sigh over that) and by the winter, things should be cooking.. No, there was never gonna be an alternative site that trashes BWW. Yes, there will be site of some kind site but let's leave that for September and no, it will have nothing to do with Broadway, BWW or anything that belts a show tune..

So many of the things I said or tried to say got misconstrued...most were said in complete and utter jest ...and some, of course where direct assaults on the fabric of the Broadway musical community....So, I feel I should end this now before someone makes mincemeat of what is a genuine statement.

I do wish all of you the best...really.... no one on this site was or is really a bad guy ...try as hard as they might....remember that, and you'll all get along fine.

My best,
Voiceanth
#107

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

Well, what-a-ya-know! This is the type of thing that keeps me coming in day after day - you just never know what you're gonna learn!
#108

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

Mindy Cohn is shocked.


"What can you expect from a bunch of seitan worshippers?" - Reginald Tresilian
#109

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

I think this thread just won the award for Best Thread Ever.
"I knew this was probably going to happen." - Rathnait62
#110

BETTER Than the Soaps!

So if Voiceanth is ViciousCircle and Bulldog is Jose...

who was Zola Q. LaPlaya and WHAT DID YOU ALL DO WITH HIM?!?!?
#111

BETTER Than the Soaps!

And to bring things full circle, what about Mary_Ethel?
Rest in peace, Iflitifloat.
#112

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

I'm back kids! (Just got confirmation on one contract) Thank you Sammy, I know you are holding out some good ones. You forgot to mention your 2 initiating pm's to me. One insisting I am posting incognito as Iris (?) and Onelocal (?) and another about turning me in to Robert Goulet's wife, the venomous Vera for accusing him of having too much to drink. Catch her before cocktail hour too. Oh! I think I have a few more from you, but ya know what, ain't gonna go there. Yours are doing fine.

And yes, obviously I do think certain posters are contentious and when that fighting, mocking attitude carries over from board (Bd.com) to board (BWW.com)for years, to me that is a loser. No one wins ...and that is my opinion. Namo let me choose what I will call you,,,for now contentious loser is what you have shown me,,,but the day is young. I may rename you.

BTW, Do we have a tally as to how many people have blocked certain posters and who they are? While we're being so raw and honest... funny, how many pm's I have discussing some of these very same people. But I am not posting private messages. It's my choice.

Anthony, you made my lunch hour! LOL! Nice to see your skin is as tough as others. I'm glad you're well and happier in the real world.

Warning: We are leaving any further mention of DP out of this thread or I will have to pull the plug on this lively shaking of the trees.


oops... sorry Joe. No we don't know each other. I just wished you might have made the initative to reply to me instead of the board. My pm was not that over the top, imo. But what the hay...it's all history.
www.pbentertainmentinc.com BWW regional writer "Philadelphia/South Jersey"

Updated On: 6/16/05 at 03:23 PM

#113

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

Dollypop is my hero

(and for the record,,, I do think that you really are Iris Chacon)"
"I knew this was probably going to happen." - Rathnait62

Updated On: 6/16/05 at 03:27 PM

#114

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

And Mamamia Sammy2 has just got to be Phantom2, right?
Unfledge them of their...perriwigs, And they appear like bald-cootes, in the nest. Beaumont, Knt. Malta, (1616).
#115

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

that's wonderful! Sammy. And we all live in that perfect world at Walgreens.

Anthony, you made my lunch hour. Glad you are well...in the real world.

When people bring their fighting, mocking attitude from board to board from year to year...yep I call that contentious and a loser. No one wins. But I will rename you again Namo, for you are an entertainer loser.

Sorry, JOE . No we don't know each other. But you could have replied to me rather than here... my pm was not that cloak and dagger, over the top,imo.

All this raw honesty... because I chose to defend M_E... He owes me a trival pursuit.
www.pbentertainmentinc.com BWW regional writer "Philadelphia/South Jersey"

Updated On: 6/16/05 at 03:32 PM

#116

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

Hot coffee PB ENT. Hot coffee.

And Dollypop is LIAM.
And etoile is a peach!
Unfledge them of their...perriwigs, And they appear like bald-cootes, in the nest. Beaumont, Knt. Malta, (1616).
#117

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

"...for now contentious loser is what you have shown me,,,but the day is young. I may rename you."

Oh, please DON'T. I don't know if I could live with myself if I all of a sudden met your approval. But thank you for spelling "loser" right this time. I know that's a challenge for you. But this doesn't seem to be a message from today, although you mention the day is young:

"So Namo & DP are MIA I hear? No loss. They are both contentious loosers. Don't raise hell from the dead."

Coincidentally, when I was "MIA" as you "heard," I was dealing with a death in the family. But I've never heard the expression "Don't raise hell from the dead." I really think you might have a book of your peculiar Pati-isms in you somewhere.

I do have a question though. What kind of person PMs somebody with sucking up messages and hard to understand sentence fragments and then tells others they believe one of the people is a "contentious looser" [sic]? I mean, why bother? What's with that game playing? Not that I ever trusted you, as what you said to others about me in Private Messages confirms you never earned.

And again, you seem to delight in being The Keeper of the Information, telling people how you heard from this one and that one and you and they have lives and that you don't even care about the board (which is of course, not true, otherwise you wouldn't regularly pop up like the gopher in Caddyshack to tell us all how much you simply don't care or have the time or the interest in the board anyway).

And again, this most recent post of yours Pati, is filled with all sorts of suggestions of "behind the scenes" knowledge. And threats against others who might use info along those same lines.

Case in poinr, whatever happened to the lawsuit you were going to threaten DP with and why did you bother telling the one other person besides DP that you consider to be a contentious looser about it?

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Updated On: 6/16/05 at 03:45 PM

#118

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

I'm still chuckling over the idea that some set of rules should be set about proper use of the PM function. You trash people in PMs then feels it's the administration's responsibility somehow to control these trashings. Priceless.

"So,,,turn off the soaps today ladies..." And with that, another facet is revealed.
Rest in peace, Iflitifloat.
#119

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

I've only saved pages 4-6 of this thread (on advice of my legal counsel) and it's 35 pages in a Word document.

All of them riveting.


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#120

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

This thread is as confusing as....


Lucy wants to be dressy, Jessie want to be
juicy, Lucy wants to be Jessie, And Jessie, Lucy, ...

"He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." -- Author Unknown
#121

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

I met a guy at the peep show (very gay reference and gay slangy, I know!) and he was wearing a t-shirt that said "Jewcy." He was!
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#123

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

etol~ My opinion of the PM function remains the same. It's pointless if it's not kept private. When they have been exposed here, they are missing the initial conversations, so you folks my not be getting the whole picture. That's the whole point of privacy.

Your entitled to call it "trashing" or anything you want. Calling someone a jackass, or loser or contentious is mild compared to some of the things that have been deleted from the OT board. I've been called worse and lived to tell it. If the anomisity or whatever you want to call it lies in that I said these things privately ...that's life. It was not my choice to bring it here...but yours. People are entitled to an opinion.

Namo,I honestly don't know what you want me to say,anymore. You argue and debate like a 3 yr. old with a ADD and an IQ of 200+ AND half the time I don't understand what you are saying. These handful of PM's are the only contacts, give or take a few more that I have here. I will not discuss the DP issue. I have no friends or co-horts here, no plans, no control, no interest...nothing. This discussion is running full cirlce and threatens boredom.

I applaud the fact that Admin. has left it as is...up to this point. I will write my reviews/interviews. Email or PM no one from here anymore.

Thanks for letting me know how you all feel.



www.pbentertainmentinc.com BWW regional writer "Philadelphia/South Jersey"

Updated On: 6/16/05 at 04:17 PM

#124

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

OK people. I've saved this PM from our leader (Rob!) for a year, but this is obviously the thread worth bringing it out for! PLEASE READ:

I wouldn't let the drama on the Off Topic board bother you... It's one of those things that people just shouldn't take as seriously as they do, because when there's a mix of (literally) thousands of personalities, there's always bound to be conflicts.
'The Devil be hitting me!'--Whitney Houston
#125

re: mary_effin'_ethel?

BUT HOW DARE YOU POST THE PM????

Sorry...like Christopher, the hairdresser/pimp, I'm just caught up in the drama.
"I'm so looking forward to a time when all the Reagan Democrats are dead."

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