Adam--in general, I suppose you're right, but people's first comment about gay/lesbian couples is always "such a pity they can't have kids", and it's just not true, so when you made your comment, some of our hackles were raised. But they're down, now.
P.S.--My BF's sister volunteered her eggs to mix with my swimmers for in-vitro to be carried by someone else (Jennifer Coolidge, I hope--she hasn't returned my calls, though....) so that would be close, right?
"They have never understood, and no reason that they should.
But if anybody could . . . " --SS