Sorry, kid you don't get a pass on this one. We get it. You're a nice person. The people in your particular school and church are nice people. We get that. Catholics can be good. Good people can be Catholic. No reasonable person would deny that. This is not about your belief in Christ or about Christianity in general, but about the very particular and specific human rights abuses of your church. And, no, the Catholic church is not the only religious organization to have committed human rights abuses, but it's the only one in which its leader is an actual head of state and who political leaders the world over are forced to show deference to.
American catholics (who are leaving the church in droves, BTW) may choose to be "cafeteria Catholics" following the doctrine of the church that aligns with their lifestyles and ignoring the less progressive elements of the church. That's fine, but it in no way excuses the centuries of abuses and malfeasance this awful institution is responsible for. The rather lax approach to catholicism by American followers does not in anyway excuse the crimes of the church itself and by continuing to pour millions of dollars into the coffers of this evil, corrupt organization, ANY and EVERY practicing Catholic is contributing the perpetuation of these crimes against women, abused children and gays & lesbians.
I will not bow down to this man - he's just a ****ing man, BTW - simply because he's a little less medieval than his predecessors. It is insane. INSANE that the leader of your church is considered a head of state. This idolatry of a single man who supposedly has a hotline to Jesus is just ridiculous. Can you imagine if we gave this kind of reception to a chief muslim cleric or a leading Rabbi? Of course not. It's unthinkable. Practice and believe what you want, but keep it and your obsessions with oppression to yourselves.