(Not As) Bad News

[Mister Matt]

(Not As) Bad News#1

Posted: 3/18/10 at 6:07pm

I just learned my father was diagnosed with esophageal cancer. I don't know where this will lead, but what I've just read about it is not good. Just a heads-up to you guys if I seem out of sorts for a while. Trying to process this information.

"What can you expect from a bunch of seitan worshippers?" - Reginald Tresilian

Updated On: 10/14/10 at 06:07 PM

[DAME]

Very Bad News#2

Posted: 3/18/10 at 6:11pm

SO sorry hon.

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[SNAFU]

Very Bad News#2

Posted: 3/18/10 at 6:13pm

Mister Matt, My dad was diagnosed with it three years ago. He is still kicking. He had laser treatments something on line they said was what the use for stage four. It seems now however they will use it on stage one with remarkable results. He refused chemo because it made him very ill.
Hope your dad can do both. It is a hard fight but it is not all bleak. Keep strong!

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Updated On: 3/18/10 at 06:13 PM

[tazber]

Very Bad News#3

Posted: 3/18/10 at 6:16pm

So sorry to hear about this matt. Try to stay strong.

*hugs*

....but the world goes 'round

[Unknown User]

Very Bad News#4

Posted: 3/18/10 at 6:17pm

Matt there are no words so I will not try! Thinking of you.

[Mr Roxy]

Very Bad News#5

Posted: 3/18/10 at 6:18pm

I will keep him in my prayers.I will also light a candle for him Sunday

My wife calls them magic candles as they have an uncanny ability of working sometime. A friend of hers just got let go & the company treated her like ****. Her husband has been out of work for over a year & she has 2 1 year old twins . She was really in a rough patch

Today she got a much better package & may also be landing a 4 month temp job. I lit a candle for her last Sunday.

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Updated On: 3/18/10 at 06:18 PM

[Reginald Tresilian]

Very Bad News#6

Posted: 3/18/10 at 6:19pm

So, so sorry!

But remember: statistics are just statistics.

Will be thinking of you both.

[AC126748]

Very Bad News#7

Posted: 3/18/10 at 6:41pm

^ So very true. I have a friend who has been living with esophageal cancer for five years. At present, he's doing extremely well. Hope for the best. You and yours will be in my thoughts.

"You travel alone because other people are only there to remind you how much that hook hurts that we all bit down on. Wait for that one day we can bite free and get back out there in space where we belong, sail back over water, over skies, into space, the hook finally out of our mouths and we wander back out there in space spawning to other planets never to return hurrah to earth and we'll look back and can't even see these lives here anymore. Only the taste of blood to remind us we ever existed. The earth is small. We're gone. We're dead. We're safe." -John Guare, Landscape of the Body

[TheatreDiva90016]

Very Bad News#8

Posted: 3/18/10 at 6:43pm

Sorry to hear this.

Sending good energy his way!



And it figures someone believes in magic candles...

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[Mr Roxy]

Very Bad News#9

Posted: 3/18/10 at 6:46pm

Nice of you to bring sarcasm into this

I guess faith offends you but that is not a big surprise.

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[TheatreDiva90016]

Very Bad News#10

Posted: 3/18/10 at 6:49pm

No.

What offends me is you thinking you got someone a job by lighting a candle for her.

"TheatreDiva90016 - another good reason to frequent these boards less."<<>> “I hesitate to give this line of discussion the validation it so desperately craves by perpetuating it, but the light from logic is getting further and further away with your every successive post.” <<>> -whatever2

[AbbaRabbit]

Very Bad News#11

Posted: 3/18/10 at 7:24pm

mrrrrow! hsssss!

anyways, i hope everything works out for your family. cancer is freakin scary.

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[EVIE]

Very Bad News#12

Posted: 3/18/10 at 7:28pm

Freakin scary indeed. My thoughts are with you and your family!

[NYadgal]

Very Bad News#13

Posted: 3/18/10 at 7:39pm

Adding my support, good thoughts, best wishes, prayers and all good karma for you and your family.

Sending cyber-hugs. And very real good thoughts!

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[Weez]

Very Bad News#14

Posted: 3/18/10 at 7:41pm

I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll be keeping you both and your family in my prayers. *hugs*

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Very Bad News#15

Posted: 3/18/10 at 7:55pm

Sending all my good thoughts your way, Matt. Lots of hugs..and always come on here if you need a smile :)

[Phyllis Rogers Stone]

Very Bad News#16

Posted: 3/18/10 at 7:56pm

Cancer blows. I have nothing but the best wishes for you and your family.

[kooky]

Very Bad News#17

Posted: 3/18/10 at 7:59pm

So very sorry ..... STAY STRONG everyone .....

[Bluemoon]

Very Bad News#18

Posted: 3/18/10 at 8:19pm

Matt - I'm so sorry to hear this. If it helps, I do know the husband of a friend who was diagnosed four years ago. He's still as active and cantankerous as he ever was. His treatment wasn't pleasant, but it seems to have done the job. Wishing you and your family all the best!

[FindingNamo]

Very Bad News#19

Posted: 3/18/10 at 8:24pm

The stories you've told in the past Matt have always made me wonder how hard it must be for a great guy like your dad to end up with a no-goodnik such as you for a son. TRY to be a good son and pitch in, would ya, your dad deserves it. I'll be lighting one of my farts later to motivate you.

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[best12bars]

Very Bad News#20

Posted: 3/18/10 at 8:25pm

You're in my thoughts, Matt. I"m so sorry to hear this! Wishing you, your father, and family the very best.

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[blueroses]

Very Bad News#21

Posted: 3/18/10 at 8:45pm

I'm so sorry, Matt. Wishing the best for your dad and your family.

[YouWantitWhen????]

Very Bad News#22

Posted: 3/18/10 at 8:58pm

Matt, my boss was diagnosed with something similar over 5 years ago, and after aggressive surgery, and some reconstruction, he is living an active, full and health life. The treatment was rough but he got through it, and other than having a few issues with food limitations, he is doing well. Hang in there. Good thoughts to you and your family.

[Jane2]

Very Bad News#23

Posted: 3/18/10 at 9:16pm

I'm sorry to hear this, Matt dear. Lots of good outcomes posted here ! Keeping ypu in my thoughts.

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[spiderdj82]

Very Bad News#24

Posted: 3/18/10 at 9:28pm

Aw, Matt, I am so sorry. Your father will be in my prayers. *HUGS*

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