If you don't like the nanny state, you should love Santorum's: stay in school, marry someone of the opposite sex, lose your virginity, have as many children as are produced by a life of unprotected sex with your spouse.
As for the speech, I don't watch SOTUs, but I do read the text, and this one reads very well.
"Great job, but it will not move the unmovable."
It was not aimed at the unmovable. It will, however, speak to independents and moderates.
"It does me no injury for my neighbour to say there are 20 gods or no god. It neither picks my pocket, nor breaks my leg."
-- Thomas Jefferson