I actually *do* think that certain facial surgeries are a good idea for some people. When one is born with a facial characterisic that dominates people's perception of them, it seems like a reasonable...even good...idea, to me. We've all seen people who were born with bizarre noses or no chin or a big wart....the kind of characteristics that dominate, disproportionately, how they are seen by the world. I think that tweaking those things so they are less prominent probably impacts their lives in a positive and healthy way.
And I think it depends on the motivation. I have a friend who had a nose job in her late teens. She was born with an ugly nose...not just an odd one with a lot of character, but really unattractive. It didn't look like it belonged to her and it was hard not to just keep staring at it. I think it made sense for her because it removed the one thing that people tended to notice first and remember about her. She could have lived a perfectly happy, fulfilled, and well-adjusted life either way, but the surgery just integrated her inside and outside, if that makes any sense...
There are people who have lost massive amounts of weight and for whom there is no other way to eliminate that abdominal flap of skin other than a tummy tuck. Makes sense to me.
Face lifts et al never seem to make the people look as good as they *think* they do. An obvious face lift always looks a little comical to me. Not a fan.
I totally understand breast reductions for women who are disproportional and suffer from backaches. Breast enlargements I don't really get, but I whatever...
I avoid unnecessary surgery, but only am truly bothered by plastic surgery when it is done with unrealistic expectations or in lieu of issues which would more appropriately be dealt with by counselling.
Would I have it? Probably not....unless someone offered, for the right price, to tighten up that droopy area under my chin that threatens to someday evolve into the dreaded double-chin. That would be hard to resist. Then again, I doubt that the quality of my life would improve as a result... so what would be the point. I am who and what I am. And I'm okay with it.
Edited because I realized I never answered the question...
Sueleen Gay: "Here you go, Bitch, now go make some fukcing lemonade." 10/28/10
Updated On: 8/22/05 at 12:46 PM