Eponine79, Charlize Theron won the Oscar for a lot more reasons than gaining weight and applying prosthetics. Her performance in Monster is absolutely explosive and she truly deserved to win.
As for Nicole, it's a very weird thing that she was nominated in the Leading Actress category as she has much less screen time than Meryl and Julianne. Julianne being shoved into Supporting cost her a win on both her nominations that year. Had there been any justice, she would have won Leading Actress for her flawless turn in Far From Heaven and Nicole would have taken Supporting Actress for The Hours.
And as for Renee winning this year for Cold Mountain, her performance was very good and very different from anything she's done which is why she got it, along with it being a consolation prize for missing out the previous year. I was very happy for her to win until the weekend of the ceremony itself when I saw Shoreh Aghdashloo give the most incredible performance in House Of Sand And Fog. Renee can win an Oscar anly old time. How many more chances will Shoreh get?
Nothing precious, plain to see, don't make a fuss over me. Not loud, not soft, but somewhere inbetween. Say sorry, just let it be the word you mean.