You shouldn't. It's fine. You aren't stalking him, really. You aren't going to his house and saying "ADAM! LEAVE YOUR WIFE AND KIDS AND LOVE ME!" You're fine.
See, you aren't crazy. There are probably people eighty times worse than you. And LBH, FIND IT! I want a copy...*cries* SANTA! BRING ME MODEL PRISONER AND CIVILIAN FOR CHRISTMAS!!!!!
Speaking of overstepping boundaries, someone on Adam's IMDb board asked if there was any chance he would cheat on his wife. (She was kidding, of course.)
Wow... that's... I'd feel really weird if I saw a bunch of threads like that about me.
Hey, did you guys know that Adam has a myspace? It seems real, like him or one of his "people" set it up, and there's a couple of songs from Civilian, but... I don't know, I'm a little skeptical, I guess. But if it really is Adam's myspace... then that's pretty cool.
His board there wasn't very active - just started getting more posts, understandably. The answer was that he's very happily married. I must admit that IMDb gets seriously out of hand at times. There isn't any real moderator presence - posts get deleted sometimes, but there's no interaction. You don't know who is doing it or why.