The Official Adam Pascal Love Thread, part three- Page 89
The Official Adam Pascal Love Thread, part three
theatrebabe
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/22/05
#2200Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/4/05 at 10:38pmHi Ellie!
"While some feel it is a film related question, I seem to think it may be a 'I am thinking of losing my winkie' sort of question."
-cheezedoodle
-cheezedoodle
Chloe
Broadway Legend Joined: 9/28/04
#2201Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/4/05 at 10:38pmI hope you get the chance to help. I think I know how you feel - being around anyone who's experienced something terrible can be difficult, as in, what do you say? I'm not very good at this stuff myself, but the people who are seem to take a matter-of-fact attitude and just relate normally.
insomniak
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/7/04
#2202Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/4/05 at 10:45pm
Ellie, it really does.
Chloe, you seem to understand how people handle being around this, even if you aren't that way yourself. Any tips?
Chloe
Broadway Legend Joined: 9/28/04
#2203Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/4/05 at 10:58pm
I'm not sure if I have any real tips, just observations. I've heard many complaints from people who are mourning a loss that others avoid them just when they need company the most, and I think it's often because of that worry over what the "right" thing to say is, or the kind of guilt you expressed about having a better life at the moment.
The ones who do well in this situation are able to put all that aside, realizing how much they are needed. They are good at listening and empathizing without getting so emotional themselves that they're no longer useful. Pretty special people, obviously.
PS: most of this comes from being good friends with two therapists.
Updated On: 9/4/05 at 10:58 PM
ElphieDefiesGravity
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/27/04
#2204Hurricane Victims
Posted: 9/5/05 at 12:47amI kind of know how you feel, Nia. My family has volunteered to take in a family. I don't know if this will actually come to fruitition, but I admit I have mixed feelings about it. I feel like it would be so...awkward. It's petty and selfish, but I don't want to have to give up my room, I don't want to have to feel like I should entertain them or something. I don't know if I would know what to say to them. I feel like a horrible person for feeling this way. People have lost everything, and I'm worried about ym privacy being invaded. I'm sure if they do come, everything will turn out fine, though. I'm actually sort of hoping they do, now.
"Blow out the candles, Robert, and make a wish. Want something. Want something."
Wishes come true, not free.
Wishes come true, not free.
#2205Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 12:48am
*claps for Emcee, Nia and Chloe re: thread on main board*
Well done, ladies!
I hung out with Cheyenne Jackson in his dressing room waayyyyyy before he tickled D2. "unleash the girly"
Our fingerprints don't fade from the lives we touch.
Puppies are babies in fur coats.
Tinfoil...The Terrorizing Terminator
#2206Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 1:40am
<-- back, just for today. 
#2207Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 1:47am:::sigh:::
I hung out with Cheyenne Jackson in his dressing room waayyyyyy before he tickled D2. "unleash the girly"
Our fingerprints don't fade from the lives we touch.
Puppies are babies in fur coats.
Tinfoil...The Terrorizing Terminator
#2208Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 1:54amI don't really feel that sad. More nostalgic. It's just kind of weird, in the sense of "my GOD, time goes by fast," since the closing also marks when I began college.
#2209Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 10:26amBumping the safe haven.
ElphieDefiesGravity
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/27/04
#2210Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 11:15amOooh, pretty picture. *pet*
"Blow out the candles, Robert, and make a wish. Want something. Want something."
Wishes come true, not free.
Wishes come true, not free.
#2211Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 11:20amYours it quite pettable, as well.
ElphieDefiesGravity
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/27/04
#2212Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 11:23am
Indeed. *grin* I have much love for it.
I still haven't finished reading the "bad Adam" thread or whatever it's called. My computer last night was too slow. Some people are stupid, from what I've read, though.
"Blow out the candles, Robert, and make a wish. Want something. Want something."
Wishes come true, not free.
Wishes come true, not free.
#2213Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 11:26amQuite. *hides out here*
ElphieDefiesGravity
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/27/04
#2214Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 11:27am*barricades door*
"Blow out the candles, Robert, and make a wish. Want something. Want something."
Wishes come true, not free.
Wishes come true, not free.
ElphieDefiesGravity
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/27/04
#2215Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 11:40am
A feel-better picture: 
It never fails to make me laugh, even if it is a bit blurry.
"Blow out the candles, Robert, and make a wish. Want something. Want something."
Wishes come true, not free.
Wishes come true, not free.
#2216Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 12:39pm... I feel like I've missed more than I'm comfortable missing. XD Bad Adam thread? *search*
"Oh, good. After all, I can rub my stomach and pat my head at the same time, and I can do it with my eyes closed while whistling 'The Entertainer.' That's rhythm for you."
~ Snaps, proving that White Boys CAN have rhythm
#2217Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 12:40pm
hehehe. I love that picture, Elphie. 
Lari, it's on the main board. The one that says something about Adam Pascal's comment in the Times - ew ew ew. bah.
theatrebabe
Broadway Legend Joined: 8/22/05
#2218Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 1:18pmEmcee that avatar is hot. A bad Adam thread, hmmmm...what would be on there?
"While some feel it is a film related question, I seem to think it may be a 'I am thinking of losing my winkie' sort of question."
-cheezedoodle
-cheezedoodle
ponine24601
Broadway Legend Joined: 10/4/03
#2219Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 1:36pm
^agreed
i am so surprised with him. i can't believe that he would say something like that, no matter how true it is.
and i miss aida like crazy. *cries*
"People asking questions, lost in confusion. Well I tell them there's no problems, only solutions."
~The one and only John Lennon
#2220Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 1:52pm
*cries for AIDA* I miss it SO much. I still can't get over seeing the All Shook Up poster in Time Square instead of AIDA.
Elfie-- that picture is great!!
I have my books and my poetry to protect me...
#2221Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 1:53pmI'm in such a quandry about that. I absolutely love the picute of Cheyenne on that poster, so... heh.
Ellie3
Broadway Legend Joined: 9/20/04
#2222Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 1:57pmCheyenne is quite the dish, it must be said.
#2223Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 1:59pm
Yes, Cheyenne is quite gorgeous, I have to admit...
Still on the AIDA note... I saw Lennon yesterday and I forgot how much I love Will Chase, who was the Radames I saw. Makes me miss it more.
I have my books and my poetry to protect me...
#2224Nia is cool with a c and an o
Posted: 9/5/05 at 2:05pmWill Chase is QUITE lovely, I must admit.
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