awwww!!!!!!!!!!! *hugs her own kitty*
just give her tons of hugs too. you've done so much already.
i feel awful. my cat died about 4 years ago and it was awful.
i'm sure that everything will get better though.
*sends happy vibes to lari's friend and her family*
"People asking questions, lost in confusion. Well I tell them there's no problems, only solutions."
~The one and only John Lennon