I had one just up and leave the state without a word. I found out by showing up at his apartment only to find it completely empty save a few rolls of Christmas wrapping paper and some apple sauce in the fridge.
You guys, look who's on the board.
A lot of the time, I think, men don't want to hurt the woman's feelings, so they drag things out, which only hurts her more.
Yeah, haha, it sucks to be you (you win!), haha.
Did you see that one coming, Fredi? I mean, THAT'S horrible.
~Steven
Haha.
I really am sorry. Like it really sucks. I wish there were some way for me to save those of my gender, but I'm afraid there isn't. We're just doomed to suck. Haha.
~Steven
Broadway Legend Joined: 11/20/04
I was blind sided... but only because I was "blinded by love"
it's hard tiff - the hardest thing is to not WANT a relationship
unfortunately - that's just what you have to do...
be OPEN to one - without WANTING one....
the WANTING is what eats up your mental and emotional energy....
you can enjoy the idea of having a realtionship (someday) and then get on with your life. The deeper you get into fulfilling your dreams and satisfying yourself - the quicker he'll show up and you'll be annoyed 'cause you'll be so into your thing that you won't want to take the time out for "some guy" who will just be a distraction....
trust me - it almost ALWAYS works this way -
the more you pine... the worse your dates will get...
the happier you make yourself - all kinds of great guys will come a sniffin'
But there are some saving graces, really. I just wish you guys were less angry!
Exactly. Being desperate is not a good way to get dates. Be confident in yourself to start with!
Updated On: 11/28/04 at 03:13 AM
Broadway Legend Joined: 11/20/04
it really is time for me to go...
i'll try to check in early than planned....
but if not - it'll probably be Tuesday or Wednesday...
CHIN UP TIFF
Nite ya'll
So true Fredi, so true.. When you want it it's never there. But as soon as you wash your hands of it, here it comes..
It's a shame. Cuz I'm hardly ever angry. In fact, I encourage people to smile just a little more because it can make the world a better place, I'm convinced. Haha.
~Steven
'Night Fredi! Thanks for the words of wisdom!
Oh, yeah, and really sorry about threadjacking this thread!!
Not at all, Tiff. You are welcome to vent anytime you need to. We're always here to listen.
Nite Fredi! It was good talking to ya!
Yeah, there'll always be someone for you here!
~Steven
Night Fredi, and thanks again for the advice on taking care of my voice!
Tiff you are always welcome to vent in my direction, either publicly or through aim!
Definitely. I don't mind listening to others at all. If you need someone, find me or IM me or e-mail me or anything.
And that goes for anyone, although it's kinda weird cuz I know I've never really met any of you, but that's really who I am. If anyone needs anything at all, I'm always here.
~Steven
Tiff, Fredi's right. I *finally* gave up on the dating game when I met my husband. We had become fast friends, then best friends, so he knew EVERYTHING about me. Then one day he proposed and that's when I realized how in love with him I was. (I know, It's cheesy but true). It'll happen for you Tiff, it really will.
~Chris
Awww Steven, you rock! Thats very sweet, but I agree whole heartedly. I'm good at being the big sister, cuz lord knows I'm probably older than most of you. But I'm a good listener and once in a while i give some pretty good advice.
OMg you guys...I'm like 40 something posts away from being a Legend!
Haha, thanks camerangel.
And I'm probably younger than most people here, but no worries, I'm available for listening, etc.
~Steven
Aww you guys are too good for me.
Wow, congrats Shbrt!
I've only started posting in the past few days, so I'm a little further from that goal, ha.
~Steven
I agree with you cam, Steven, you're a really cool dude.
And Tiff, I'm also an ear if you'd like one. You guys on here are all great.
~Chris
This is a nice place to feel supported when there aren't people available in our daily lives to support us :)
Did that make any sense?
Updated On: 11/28/04 at 03:30 AM
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