I was blind sided... but only because I was "blinded by love"
it's hard tiff - the hardest thing is to not WANT a relationship
unfortunately - that's just what you have to do...
be OPEN to one - without WANTING one....
the WANTING is what eats up your mental and emotional energy....
you can enjoy the idea of having a realtionship (someday) and then get on with your life. The deeper you get into fulfilling your dreams and satisfying yourself - the quicker he'll show up and you'll be annoyed 'cause you'll be so into your thing that you won't want to take the time out for "some guy" who will just be a distraction....
trust me - it almost ALWAYS works this way -
the more you pine... the worse your dates will get...
the happier you make yourself - all kinds of great guys will come a sniffin'
"Stupidity should be PAINFUL!" - Cam
"Yeah - painful for the STUPID not the rest of us!"
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