Telling somebody to live in the real world is condescending
Yes. Because you are asserting that your view of the world is the only legitimate and superior one and that they should conform to your view.
but calling somebody a child for holding the political views they do isn't?
Well, that's the point where you actually highlight your own hypocrisy. Do as you say, not as you do. Keep it up! Cut the crap, Mister Holier-Than-Thou!
Calling out somebody who's questioning the legitimacy of a peaceful power transition is condescending—but speaking down to me as homophobic, misogynistic, xenophobic, and white supremacist when I haven't said or written a single world in support of any of those beliefs isn't?
Well, that certainly is an interesting take on what I said. For someone who rails against alleged condescension, you sure deploy it authentically, easily and often. But I'm not going to try and stop you from enjoying your peaceful power transition so you can enthusiastically embrace your champion of homophobes, misogynists, xenophobes and white supremacists. Your party. Your champion. Your source of pride. I've absolutely no doubt you are proud of the man, his political knowledge, competence and experience, his honorable actions and behavior, his maturity and respect of others, his commitment to his party and his supporters, the enthusiasm and pride he inspires among the alt-right and conservative and Christian extremists, and most importantly, what he represents: a lifetime of branding, marketing and serving the elite; most notably wealthy, white, heterosexual men. I'm really happy that you get everything you want so you can enthusiastically embrace it all in this peaceful transition of power. So peaceful, it's positively tranquil. It sounds like you're getting everything you deserve. Keep it up!
"What can you expect from a bunch of seitan worshippers?" - Reginald Tresilian