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[Shannon Bo Dannon]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 12:52am

DGG I definitely know how that is.

Did you guys get into any arguments or something? You need to confront him about this and see what the deal is.

[killertofu333]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 12:53am

You're not stupid you're just doing what a lot a folks do...take all his crap until you SNAP him like a twig. A lot of us have done it.

As women we're allowed to be a little stupid when we're into someone...it's encoded in our DNA. It just sucks when we know (and others on the outside looking in) how amazing we are, but our significant other can't see it.

According to the BWW color code thread, I think we've just committed a SAFFRON!!!

Updated On: 11/8/08 at 12:53 AM

[nygrl232]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 5:53am

Clearly he isn't for you. It sucks when you like someone, and they're not nice to you in return. He won't come around, unfortunately for your feelings, but fortunately for you. It's hard to dump someone when you still like him. It's easy to spend time and energy hoping.

It'll hurt, but it'll hurt less than wasting time on the guy. You know all of this already, probably. You can't make him like you or treat you nicely. It's not your fault you're being treated this way. He's a jerk. The planet is crawling with 'em. And they all need to shut up.
Updated On: 11/8/08 at 05:53 AM

[StageManager2]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 6:41am

"I just can't escape you two, can I?"

DGG, I smell sarcasm. He was addressing you both and not singling you out.

[nygrl232]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 7:07am

Eh, sarcasm doesn't come across lightheartedly when the person is consistently jerky. Besides, he texted the other girl, not DGG.

[StockardFan]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 8:53am

dgg, you aren't stupid, you are just normal. We've ALL been there, and it sucks. He definitely needs to be kicked to the curb.

I'm sorry honey.....I know it sucks.

[Schmerg_The_Impaler]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 9:11am

DGG, I feel terrible for you. But I wouldn't say you should just go and dump him now-- sit him down and have a talk with you first, or you'll wonder the rest of your life why he's being such a creep. Duct tape him to the chair so he can't escape. Well, maybe not that, but you need an explanation, if only so that the members of BWW will have closure!

Posted: 11/8/08 at 10:55am

I tried calling him and texting him today, so I can talk to him. Nothing. No answer.

I hate this.

[Weez]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 11:08am

What is it about musical theatre that attracts bitchy hate-filled wretches? Why would someone who is old enough to be your parent think it acceptable to act young enough to be your child? Why would someone need to act in such a nasty, patronising, know-it-all, "I'm better than you LOLOLOL" fashion on a message board? And what's with "if you don't like this subject, don't read this thread"/"I don't like your subject so I'm going to s*** all over this thread" hypocrisy? Some people are absolutely effing ridiculous and the ONLY good thing I can say about them is that I am very pleased that I am not them. What a miserable excuse for a human being.

Awww, now I don't know if I want y'all to work out who I'm talking about or not. I try to keep these things anonymous buuut... heh. May not've worked. XD I'd DEFINITELY like them to SHUT! UP! though. :3

[Q]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 11:20am

"I don't know if I want y'all to work out who I'm talking about or not"

I haven't a clue who you're talking about - but the sad truth is it would be difficult to narrow the list down, just on this site alone.

[nygrl232]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 11:22am

I hear you, weez. There are some nutjobs on this board who can't seem to be banned, no matter how insidiously they break the rules.

[StockardFan]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 11:23am

dgg, this guy is just not good enough for you. Period.

And yeah, Weez, who are you talking about?

[Weez]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 11:29am

Usually I don't mind the nutjobs. I mean, it's the *internet*, y'know? But just once in a while, you meet a really special one *koffmamasdoin'fineahem* who is simply stunning in their moronicness. I should learn to be less surprised, I guess.

[LePetiteFromage]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 1:54pm

Updated On: 1/10/09 at 01:54 PM

[Q]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 2:14pm

Little Cheese - AMEN!!! I just turned our AC on

Posted: 11/8/08 at 4:23pm

I dumped him.


So why do I still feel so miserable?

[Schmerg_The_Impaler]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 4:31pm

Because you're a human being...

What did you say to him when you dumped him? And what did he do? *Feels like I'm a middle-school sleepover*

Posted: 11/8/08 at 4:50pm

I ended up calling him and doing it over the phone. It was the only way, because I couldn't ever get him to see me.

I just told him I couldn't do it anymore. I told him he wasn't even looking at me and was pushing me away, and I couldn't do that. I asked why he did it. He said he was unsure of everything. I told him not to be mad, and he said he wasn't, and that it was I who should be pissed at him...so, no problems there. Ugh.

[Shannon Bo Dannon]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 5:15pm

That really sucks DGG I'm very sorry. It'll hurt for a little while but you'll be okay and get past it. You're too worthwhile for a guy who would treat you like that.

[Mister Matt]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 5:58pm

Weez - I think I know about whom you refer. I could be one of two, but I'm pretty sure who it is.

[killertofu333]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 6:09pm

Come on Mister Matt, I'm holding my breath in suspense, WHO is it??!!

*gasp* Dear God I hope it's not me!!!!

[jlc6314]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 7:53pm

I'm so sick of all the religious nutbags in the world that think they need to push their views on other people. My feelings about this have only heightened since Obama won the election. I now have so-called "friends" who feel it's okay to utter extremely prejudice and bigoted statements to me, regardless of how I feel. Things like this make me want to excommunicate these people as my friends!

[nygrl232]

Posted: 11/8/08 at 8:47pm

Good on you for ripping off the bandaid, DGG. When you've got a guy who doesn't treat you right, anything regarding him is gonna be painful. Best to do the painful breakup and distance yourself. Anything else is a waste of time and energy. You'll feel better about it eventually--the best way to get over an old flame is find a new one.

[Mister Matt]

Posted: 11/9/08 at 4:52pm

killertofu - Well, it's not for me to say, but it's not as if the board is exactly lacking in rude condescending bitter theatre queens. Honestly, just pick up a dart and throw it at the screen.

Stockard - We can't have a dish in our building, so there goes that idea.

The noisy neighbor has been at it all weekend and now I've got a terrible head cold. SHUT UP MUSIC MONSTER AND SHUT UP NOSE!!

DGG - Atta girl! You're going to feel so much better without the constant anxiety and stress and you'll be very surprised at how much more receptive you'll be to positive energy. Just start piecing together your self-respect, your self-worth and your self-esteem, remind yourself how you deserve to be treated and let karma do the work for you. I truly can identify with your situation and while there is the initial pain, you will soon realize that the prolonged pain you were causing yourself constantly fretting during the relationship (those horrible nights when your mind can't stop playing out scenarios due to lack of communication) was far greater than the breakup itself. It's like getting a shot. The relationship was making you sick. You may fear the needle, but the pain of the shot is so brief, it's totally worth it knowing you are on your way to a swift recovery.


PS - SHE'S NOT YOUR BITCH!!

Updated On: 11/9/08 at 04:52 PM

[Mister Matt]

Posted: 11/9/08 at 4:58pm

Oh, and killertofu, I certainly was not thinking it was you. Though one of them does post under 2 different accounts. He mistakenly used the exact same pic of himself as an avatar for both accounts, but caught his own mistake and changed it. It didn't go unnoticed. He's pretty vile, but also not the one Weez was talking about, I don't think.