oh, shut up — Page 7

You're not stupid you're just doing what a lot a folks do...take all his crap until you SNAP him like a twig. A lot of us have done it.

As women we're allowed to be a little stupid when we're into someone...it's encoded in our DNA. It just sucks when we know (and others on the outside looking in) how amazing we are, but our significant other can't see it.

According to the BWW color code thread, I think we've just committed a SAFFRON!!!

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Updated On: 11/8/08 at 12:53 AM

"I just can't escape you two, can I?"

DGG, I smell sarcasm. He was addressing you both and not singling you out.

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dgg, you aren't stupid, you are just normal. We've ALL been there, and it sucks. He definitely needs to be kicked to the curb.

I'm sorry honey.....I know it sucks.

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I tried calling him and texting him today, so I can talk to him. Nothing. No answer.

I hate this.

"I don't know if I want y'all to work out who I'm talking about or not"

I haven't a clue who you're talking about - but the sad truth is it would be difficult to narrow the list down, just on this site alone.

dgg, this guy is just not good enough for you. Period.

And yeah, Weez, who are you talking about?

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Updated On: 1/10/09 at 01:54 PM

I dumped him.


So why do I still feel so miserable?

I ended up calling him and doing it over the phone. It was the only way, because I couldn't ever get him to see me.

I just told him I couldn't do it anymore. I told him he wasn't even looking at me and was pushing me away, and I couldn't do that. I asked why he did it. He said he was unsure of everything. I told him not to be mad, and he said he wasn't, and that it was I who should be pissed at him...so, no problems there. Ugh.

Weez - I think I know about whom you refer. I could be one of two, but I'm pretty sure who it is.

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I'm so sick of all the religious nutbags in the world that think they need to push their views on other people. My feelings about this have only heightened since Obama won the election. I now have so-called "friends" who feel it's okay to utter extremely prejudice and bigoted statements to me, regardless of how I feel. Things like this make me want to excommunicate these people as my friends!

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killertofu - Well, it's not for me to say, but it's not as if the board is exactly lacking in rude condescending bitter theatre queens. Honestly, just pick up a dart and throw it at the screen.

Stockard - We can't have a dish in our building, so there goes that idea.

The noisy neighbor has been at it all weekend and now I've got a terrible head cold. SHUT UP MUSIC MONSTER AND SHUT UP NOSE!!

DGG - Atta girl! You're going to feel so much better without the constant anxiety and stress and you'll be very surprised at how much more receptive you'll be to positive energy. Just start piecing together your self-respect, your self-worth and your self-esteem, remind yourself how you deserve to be treated and let karma do the work for you. I truly can identify with your situation and while there is the initial pain, you will soon realize that the prolonged pain you were causing yourself constantly fretting during the relationship (those horrible nights when your mind can't stop playing out scenarios due to lack of communication) was far greater than the breakup itself. It's like getting a shot. The relationship was making you sick. You may fear the needle, but the pain of the shot is so brief, it's totally worth it knowing you are on your way to a swift recovery.


PS - SHE'S NOT YOUR BITCH!!

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Updated On: 11/9/08 at 04:52 PM