I've met John numerous times and under different situations, and he really is a terrifically nice young man. Very gracious, very humble, very interesting.
I know recently (just on Monday?) he didn't do a fund raiser that much of the cast participated realizing he had to let his voice rest on his one day off. He was kindly apologetic about it.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.