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Um, can't believe I'm jumping into this
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I can't believe I'm jumping into this either. I am aware of the general issue about Asian stereotypes that GeorgeandDot is referring to but for this Asian-American woman, it's mostly an abstract issue rather than one that has a practical effect on my day-to-day life. What I mean is that the average Broadway audience member who lives in New York or other big city would be exposed to many Asian-American women who are doctors, engineers, lawyers, investment bankers, journalists, etc. I doubt that seeing one three hour show about a subservient woman who needs a strong American GI to rescue her will do much to erode their interactions with independent, successful Asian-American women day-in and day-out.
Also, I am not sure why the Kim-Chris pairing bothers GeorgeandDot so much. Such kinds of relationships are prevalent today in New York City, so it shouldn't be a shock that they were also present back in the 1970s when the sociopolitical and economic forces were far more complex. If anything, with the way they wrote the book, Chris' attraction to Kim arose from their shared torment and loss. In this day and age of "yellow fever", it seems to be far more substantive than the kind of attraction shown by many of the Caucasian guys that I date today.
When I watched the show, none of the previous opinion pieces I read about the racial insensitivities entered my mind. What gripped me was the lush orchestrations, the majestic sets, captivating choreography and magnetic performances from all the leads. If you were to force me to do an analysis from Asian perspective, I would reflect upon how far this Asian-American College Professor has come in one-and-half generations and how grateful I am for show to educate us about the exploitation of Asian women in those times; it helps to provide context for the the significance of our accomplishments.
In any case, back to the original question - I recommend Miss Saigon. Bandstand was a great show as well but I just think Miss Saigon (with Eva not the alternate on, ideally) was just an exquisite show. Clearly, it wasn't perfectly done in terms of social commentary. But relative to the standard I normally hold for a 3-hour musical, it was sublime.