I went just after opening night (March 12). It is most certainly a mob scene (roughly about 150 on a cold night), but it is one of the most well-controlled mob scenes you can imagine. The stagedoor guy is very friendly and organized and security helps things keep moving quickly.
Even if you are in the back, everyone helps each other by sending Playbills forward to get signed and the cast makes and effort to reach everyone they can with selfies and whatnot. On my night, it was Salazar, “SweetTooth” Williams, Carlson, Marcus, and Tam (in that order). It was also the night before the GMA performance so, that might have affected things. But everyone is really nice and appreciate the fandom this show has.
Of course, please remember to ALWAYS show common courtesy and respect to the people around you and the performers at all times since the cast doesn’t owe this to anyone.
P.S - I was at the ass end of the balcony and made it down there after curtain call no issue. From what it looked like, people didn’t really know the SD was there until they saw everyone else as they were leaving.
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