I, too, was highly disappointed. I went in WANTING to fall in love with it, but alas, alack....not the case at all. I was often bored and felt little for the characters and wasn't moved at all when the two men finally connected. We saw no NEED for them to reach out for one another -- none.
I appreciate the movie so much more. (And I'd always liked it.)
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.