in addition to good points being brought up, i feel like the show is marketing itself as being a lot less and very differently than it really is, with statements like this on their official website:
"Side by side by side, five married couples, three single women and one charismatic, conflicted bachelor try to balance romance, commitment, friendship and sex in the city that never sleeps."
It sounds like a tagline for any normal movie that includes a commitmentphobe surrounded by married people. Nothing unique, has been done many times before and has no particular draw for me, at least, to see it.
i only saw it because a close friend demanded that i saw it. and when i saw it, i went in thinking the show was so different than what it turned out to be. i almost felt tricked - i watched most of the first act holding on to the conclusion that yeah, marriage sucks, it makes you crazy, you should avoid it. i was so sure of this conclusion that i couldn't see, initially, that the show was so much more than that.
now i feel like i basically missed the point of the first act, and now i have to watch it again.
this thread is important in that it really brings up the need for a refocusing of marketing for a very good show.
it's amazing that at least two new york times article devoted to this show wasn't advertisement enough. now *that* was great publicity, albeit very fleeting.