Sorry, Mildred....I don't see how their PERFORMANCE can make them seem PERSONALLY self important.
They believe in what they are doing and are incredibly dedicated....but other than that, I don't see the "self-important" label.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.