"meeting" (Emma Stone)seems a strong word choice for stagedooring. Is getting an autograph, a picture, or attempting a few words with a performer a "meet". I can imagine starting a conversation beginning, "Oh, I met Emma Stone once. She was very nice.". "Really? How did you meet?!!". "Well, she was leaving the theatre where she had been performing and...". "Oh.'
Maybe it's just semantics- meeting can just be an encounter - and that's what stagedooring is, I guess.
Personally I stagedoored 3 times in my life - twice when I was 18. First time was after "Mame". I knew nothing about stagedooring - accidentally wound up going back of the theatre building after a matinee of "Mame" during its Boston tryout. Ms. Lansbury came out, was wonderful, signed my Playbill and dazzled me - especially so, having just seen her awesome performance in that great show (only my third). It was such a high!
I stagedoored next after a matinee of "The Apple Tree" during ITS Boston tryout. Alan Alda and Larry Blyden came out, signed autographs and were friendly. We were all (about 20 of us) waiting for the glorious Barbara Harris - incredible performance btw. - Well, when she came out ( beige raincoat, sunglasses on a grey afternoon) she clearly took a deep breath and head down and looking very nervous strode quickly by everyone on her way to a waiting car.One woman had the gall to almost grab her shoulder when she walked by, calling "Barbara..Barbara!" Ms.Harris's reaction was almost terror.Harris's clear uncomfortableness with the situation made me feel very embarrassed and quite aware of what an intrusion it was on a star who had just given an exhausting, knock-out performance and wanted only to get to wherever she was going. The incident ended my stagedooring (almost) as I then felt exactly as Fisherman Bob and HogansHero on this subject.
Ok- guilty- I stagedoored again. It was after "Boy from Oz". I didn't plan on it - but there Hugh Jackman was shortly after a matinee right there in front of the Imperial. He seemed so nice and interacting with the fans with jokes etc. I had a souvenir program from the show which I rarely buy - it was a whim- and I thought, "What the hell - why not?". So I joined the throng and got his signature. But then there was this moment - our eyes met - and he seemed to be thinking, "Ok...but why is this (aging) adult man doing this". Or maybe that was what I was thinking...but at any rate, i felt pretty foolish and believe me, that was the last of my stagedooring. I had to laugh (in agreement) with a previous post - stagedooring is one thing if you're a teenager - a grown man has no business being there!
I told this story before - not sure if it was here - sorry if it's a rerun.
Updated On: 2/6/15 at 01:25 PM