Hey, there!!
I've also been a huge fan of Hedwig for some time now and have yet to see it on stage.
Those are two really great questions and both are open to opinion and viewer/reader's choice. I know people who are 100% sure that Tommy knew about Hedwig being a woman, and some who are convinced that he thought Hedwig was always a she.
When Hedwig tells him to "love the front of her," she means to accept her for everything. This is what gives me an idea that Tommy knew she was a woman. In the movie, Hedwig talks about how Tommy would only always kiss her neck, and hug her from behind. This could be because he didn't want to face the idea of something in her pants that he wasn't comfortable with.
Tommy and Hedwig seem like they are the same person, two personalities of the same person, but I do not believe they are.
I know that each character was modeled after and created for specific people JCM either met or had in his head.
Since the show was originally supposed to be completely about Tommy and Hedwig was only introduced to be his babysitter, I do not believe they are intended to be of the same.
Tommy is very much like Hedwig, and that's why Hedwig really thought she had found her other half in him.
I don't think they are the same but, as I mentioned, each character in the show obviously has a relation to each other. As if they are all each other's other halves.
[WOW, I apologize for my blabbering!]
EDIT: I should learn how to spell one of these days.
Call me Travis. :)
Updated On: 4/8/08 at 06:58 PM