I remember being 14 and all my 'theatre buddies' would obsess to the point of ad nauseum over Rent and I bashed it until I was blue in the face. Of course, I was obsessed with Side Show... it still has a special place in my heart because its the only show I was ever obsessed with, but obsession of any kind is not good. I grew out of the show... (and became more aware of its flaws as time progressed...) but I think it said a lot about me that I was devoting my adoration to an obscure show that I was constantly having to explain to everyone other than a show that everyone and their dead grandmother knew.
I was a little theatre elitist snob when I was little. I've since come to realize that sure, you can enjoy the fluff (I'm not calling Rent fluff... I just don't like it, plain and simple), but it's still important to know thats just what it is -- fluff -- and to familiarize yourself with those piece of works that are in a different league, such as Caroline or Change. I suppose its an acquired taste.
I suppose my little lesson to the youngin's out there is... don't be a follower -- broaden your horizons. It's okay to have different likes and dislikes. Give the things that aren't 'in' or 'hip' a try.
PS:
Tonya deserves to win. Period. :)
"You! You are the worst thing to happen to musical theatre since Andrew Lloyd Webber! And you, well, I just plain don't like you."
~Stewart Gilligan Griffin