"Re the "bang, zoom" stuff: It's all bluster, Ralph Kramden trying to convince himself that he's "king of the castle," as stated in one episode of the series. But he knows he would never hurt Alice"
IMO, part of that was the brilliance of Audrey Meadows. You knew that Ralph wouldn't hurt Alice because Alice was tough enough to put him in his place. The comedy comes out of the fact that she is just as brash as he is. She never cowers from him, she's always up in his face.
If anyone ever tells you that you put too much Parmesan cheese on your pasta, stop talking to them. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.