I do not know where her "b*tchy" reputation comes from. I SD Gypsy today, and she was the nicest thing ever! When I said "You were amazing!", she looked me in the eyes and said "Thank you so much, and thank you for coming!" She is the nicest ever!
"He found something that he wanted, had always wanted and always would want— not to be admired, as he had feared; not to be loved, as he had made himself believe; but to be necessary to people, to be indispensable."
-F. Scott Fitzgerald's This Side of Paradise