I've been to plenty of shows where a certain actor or actress has walked out of the stage door completely ignoring fans, not waving to them, and not even a simple glance in their direction. They're human, they have their own lives, and they have every right in the world not to associate with you. They did their job onstage for you, whether you enjoyed the performance or not. If they want to come off as a b!tch and not be gracious to fans, that's their business. There must've been a reason Molly waited 1 hr and 15 min to come out of the stage door because she probably figured that no one would actually wait an that long for her. Well, she was wrong, and while some actors may choose to stop and mingle with fans, she didn't, move on with it - it's not the end of the world.
"We like to snark around here. Sometimes we actually talk about theater...but we try not to let that get in our way." - dramamama611