bjh, I doubt you would be rolling your eyes if it were your money involved.
Here's the takeaway: Broadway is expensive, and there must be some sense, in the mind of someone prepared to invest their money, that the enterprise has a chance of succeeding financially. It's fine to have a wish list, but it's useful to anchor it in some reality. That's why I suggested diverting your attention from Broadway for those shows that you would like to see. I don't want to see you disappointed.