snl89: I disagree with the idea that Jamie supported Cathy. Sure, he sang a gorgeous song about how he believed in her, but when it came down to it did he ever see one of her shows (which she brings up in "See, I'm Smiling")? Actions speak louder than words. I did realize that actually, and its a very good point! It actually did make me question whether or not I really DID like jamie, but then, thinking about it, did cathy ever really go to anything for him either? It just kinda seems like maybe it went both ways, you know? Not saying that really justifys anything, but it seems like both of them were a bit self centered, and that def seems to be part of the reason their relationship didn't work in the end. Because
niether of them were willing to compromise. So.. I guess I feel they were equally at fault? haha
oh, and now that I think about it... I wonder.. do you think jamie maybe started out actually going and visiting more often and then it wasnt toward the end when they were already were having lots of trouble that he stopped? I cant really tell actually.. because obviously in summer in ohio and stuff she's talking about wanting him to come, but do we ever really find out if he DID come at those times earlier on? For the record, I'm not generally too good at understanding lyrics really really well right off the bad haha, so it could totally be really obvious and I'm just missing it lol. But it just seems to me like maybe he could have started out going there a lot and everything, and then it wasn't till later on that he stopped coming because they were already growing apart?
edit: nevermind, she DOES talk about him never seeing any of her shows, doesn't she? So, yeah, scratch the early-on supportivness thought lol
and yes, for the record, I am MAJORLY going on norbert's delivery of the character, much moreso than the character itself :) because norbert just PLAYS him in such a caring way that how could you NOT love him? hehe. If someone else played him I'm sure I'd like him a WHOLE lot less :P
I don't need a life that's normal. That's way too far away. But something next to normal would be okay. Something next to normal is what I'd like to try. Close enough to normal to get by.
Updated On: 10/18/06 at 08:21 PM