Several people I've talked to have walked away from the show thinking she was a lesbian because of her exclamation of "no more cute boys with short haircuts," the line you've mentioned about Gary being her "first and last," the mystery over who owns the apartment, and even something as silly as her initial desire to be a PE teacher.
Kathy is also the only one of the three who ends up unattached (seemingly) at the end of the show, but I think the message being delivered through her is that happiness is just as attainable through the fulfillment of one's self, not necessarily by definition of a relationship with another person.
The way people are so prone to speculating about who she is or isn't involved with (she can't just be single and happy?) kind of proves the point of why that social commentary is still so relevant.
Tonya Pinkins: Then we had a "Lot's Wife" last June that was my personal favorite. I'm still trying to get them to let me sing it at some performance where we get to sing an excerpt that's gone.
Tony Kushner: You can sing it at my funeral.
Updated On: 8/11/09 at 01:43 PM