First preview of Wonderful Town, Barry came up to me and introduced himself and told me that if I had any criticisms of the show or thoughts about anything to feel free to tell him at any point. He was very gracious, sincere, and respectful everytime I saw him over the course of that year.
One show, I sat in the last row to watch the second act (an usher has to be inside during the performance). There was no one near me but Fran a few seats over. She moved to the seat next to me and whispered thoughts and asked me questions the rest of the act. She was always nice every time I saw her.
I'll never forget all throughout grade school being warned by kids a year ahead of me to beware my next teacher who was soooooo mean. Funny--they were never mean to me...