Posted: 7/3/18 at 5:16pm
Chatted with Alexandra Silber about her new memoir, "White Hot Grief Parade," released today. She shares her story of her father's death and what happens "when the fruit baskets rot and people stop calling."
We talked about her three friends, all "theater kids" and musicians, and why that specifically made them so key to getting through those months, and what makes theater people tick in general.
She is incredibly articulate, and I think really gives a look inside the mind of a performer and what it takes and means to be one. She says the education system often values words, numbers, athletic prowess - but not emotional strengths.
"I think what happens is there there are these people that possess extraordinary depth, extraordinary emotional intelligence, inter- and intrapersonal intelligence, musical intelligence — incredible skills to offer the world and no accessible, conventional outlet with which to focus that. I think those kids grow up feeling like they are weirdos and they feel isolated and they feel strange and they feel like they don't belong. They're often the kids who have the deepest and most available emotional well."
But when those kids find theater, they find that outlet, as well as like-minded people who appreciate vulnerability - which, in turn, makes them successful performers.
Thoughts?
Full story here, she has a ton of other really thought-provoking things to say: Broadway's Alexandra Silber mulls loss, life in 'White Hot Grief Parade'