I once asked Miss Patti (in an email) this question:
Why is it that gay men who follow musical theatre adore you?
Her response: from 8-12-03
"How about you have taste!", Love, Patti
"Noel [Coward] and I were in Paris once. Adjoining rooms, of course. One night, I felt mischievous, so I knocked on Noel's door, and he asked, 'Who is it?' I lowered my voice and said 'Hotel detective. Have you got a gentleman in your room?' He answered, 'Just a minute, I'll ask him.'" (Beatrice Lillie)