I don't understand: 'giving a show a chance'. If, for whatever reason, a show doesn't appeal to me, I am not going to see it. To consider myself a patron of the arts does not require me to see every show just to see if I MIGHT like it.
I bring my HS kids to the city every year for a theatrical weekend and since THEY pay for it, they select the shows. Sometimes they chose shows I'd rather not see. Have I been pleasantly surpised by some of those shows? Ceretainly, Titanic and Tommy spring to mind. But just as often, I sat there needing to remind myself that I was working and had to force myself to stay.
To suggest we need to give something "a try" is like telling a me to keep trying cigarettes...because once you get use to it, it's not so bad. If I don't want to, THATS a good enough reason not to see a show.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.