In response to somebody, I wasn't "hurt" that she didn't look me in the eye, it just would have been cooler if she did, and I could've gotten a better picture, but I was two feet from her, so I'm happy.
This thread has gone on forever...wow, um, for those who wonder about her tone, I don't think she said it in a cruel way. She was being honest, yes, and knowing LuPone, she probably meant it lightly and it came off harder.
My reason for originally posting was to see if you guys thought she could've chosen her words better (I agree with those of you who said she could've prefaced it with "thank you"), and I also wondered if you thought the guy was crying because she spoke to him or because of what she said.
You look absolutely terrific, honestly.