"If you think it's good, you really need to get out more."
I’m disappointed. That’s not quite up to your usual standard of insult, such as your memorable rejoinder on Feb. 4 to Muscle and Kudzu: “Go stick your head in the oven.” Although I'm totally disarmed by such a clever retort, I'll gather my wits enough to point out the following:
"Actually, the guy is wearing the same exact coat and scarf."
The "guy" (I assume you mean Bobby, the lead) is, in fact, wearing the same coat and scarf as at the top of the show. Since you found the show "hard to follow" I'll point out that Bobby also acts as a narrator at the top of each Act and at the end. Bobby is SUPPOSED to be wearing the same coat and scarf at the top of the show as at the end because he's taking a retrospective look back at the events. BTW, narrators are common throughout the history of drama.
"If he cared, he would have jumped off the train with her."
Really? That must be the long-lost 11th Commandment. Besides, the subway door closes quickly behind Caroline. Even she just barely manages to get off at her stop. And Bobby shouts after her: "Where can I find you?"
"And it's impossible to find someone in NYC just by knowing what area they live in."
You may be interested to know that they have these things now which are called "telephone books." If you look up someone's name (and since Bobby and Caroline have known each other since the 4th grade, we can be pretty sure Bobby knows Caroline’s last name), you can actually find his or her telephone number and address. They've even got online services now where, if you know someone's name and the state (not even the city) they live in, you can get the address and phone number. I've included a link below to one such service. You might want to check it out.
"Then, after not having seen her for 10 years, he sings 'God only knows what I'd be without you.' YOU JUST SPENT 10 YEARS WITHOUT HER, SO OBVIOUSLY IT'S POSSIBLE."
Did you bother to listen to all the lyrics? The whole point of the song is that, if they're apart, life would go on, but that life is made meaningful by being together. The first line of the song is: "If you should ever leave me, life would still go on, believe me." Plus, what makes you think Bobby (or "the guy," as you call him) is talking about the past? The use of the words, "if you should ever leave me," refers to the future. If he had wanted to refer to the past, he would have said, "if you had ever left me," or "from the time that you left me," or words to that effect.
I also note that you just posted: “There is a smart way to put a show together, and there is a terrible way to put a show together.” Perhaps you’d like to point us to some examples of your own Broadway work as examples of the former.
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