I had always dismissed online dating as something I would never try. I just had this idea that it wouldn't be for me, and for some reason this preconceived notion that it was "sketchy." A bit over two years ago, I made myself an OkCupid profile. I basically figured a) most people in bars are just looking to hook up (especially gay bars, lets face it) and b) I wasn't posting anything on OkCupid that wasn't already on my Facebook. I got a message from my now boyfriend of two plus years on the site three days after creating my profile, and I deleted it two days after our first date. And we've been together ever since.
So for me, it was absolutely worth it. I figured I had nothing to lose. And I'm very glad I stepped out of my comfort zone and tried it. I realize I'm in the minority in terms of things working out so well so fast (he had a profile for about six months and went on multiple dates, most of which were total busts, all of which never went anywhere) but I say give it a try! Why the hell not?
Updated On: 6/26/13 at 11:46 AM