Actually, I have seen The Laramie Project.
I've also seen Boys Don't Cry.
I do not believe in Bible, or religion, but one of my closest friends does. She believes in Jesus Christ and is a devout follower. She accepts me for who I am and holds no hatred for what I do. She is probably one of the sweetest people I know. We have our differences, and we both respect each other. This is how most Christians feel. You are talking about a mere few that give them a bad name.
It sounds to me like you hold resentment due to your past.
And you know, I work with someone who thinks I'm going to hell for being gay. I don't hate this person, as he is very kind to me. We just have different beliefs, and lucky for him, I don't believe in hell. But, if we get on the topic of religion, I stand my ground, and get extremely hotheaded. He knows this, so it is a subject we try to avoid.
Kristin has not done or said anything to you personally. She has never stated that she hates homo's, or pulled a Donna Summer and stated that homosexuality is a sin. You are reading into it more than you should.
"Do you know what pledge time is, Andrew"? said the PBS Executive.
"Yes", Lloyd Webber replied. "My 50th birthday special must be one program that gets done a lot."
"No", mused the man from PBS heedlessy. "Not so much. Our Stephen Sondheim Carnegie Hall concert. That's a big one."
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