I keep coming back to something Roxy said in the first post in this thread:
"I suffer from a physical condition that is slowly deteriorating my muscles. It is not life threatening but serious none the less. I advised Namo of it & his compassion lasted about 2 weeks if I recall."
Now, I'm the first, or at least in the first half-dozen, to sympathize with physical ailments and appreciate their impact on one's existence. But, I think it's the top of a very slippery slope to expect illness or disability to be a reason to not be held accountable for one's actions or words. Such conditions may well explain a lot about why we feel as we do, but I worry about the implications and long term effect of treating someone with deference because they have a disease, be it life-threatening or 'merely' life-altering. It's bad enough to have a physical impairment, but to then expect to be treated differently because of it diminishes the essence of the person in question. I've always held to the "no matter what happens to my body, as long as I have my brain, I'm still in the ball park" theory. And it has served me well.
Sueleen Gay: "Here you go, Bitch, now go make some fukcing lemonade." 10/28/10
Updated On: 5/21/04 at 09:39 AM