Moved there in September and already a Jersey Girl, that's impressive!
I asked, because I too, am a Jersey Girl. I moved when I was 10, but my whole extended family still lives there, and if I'm there for more than 24 hours, my accent comes back.
But, as far as matchmaking is concerned, I strikeout on all counts.
Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be enbered with your old nonsense. ~ Emerson