Finally, A Responsible Parent!
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:19pm
If sonny boy is 19, he's old enough to buy his own car, anyway.
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:20pm
I'm not with you on this one.
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
Updated On: 1/9/08 at 01:20 PM
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:20pm
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:22pm
linnie -- it's 21 to drink in the States.
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:23pm
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:23pm
Get a clue.
Did you read the story? She only had TWO RULES; No Liquor, and Keep It Locked. She found liquor in the car.
She did the right thing.
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:24pm
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:24pm
Well, in this country the age is 21. And there was alcohol in THE CAR, which most likely means that that is where he was drinking it (possibly putting others at risk while driving). Even if it was a passenger drinking it (who was most likely also underage), he was told when given the car that in order to keep it, alcohol was off limits. It's not that much to ask. He's lucky his parents bought him a car in the first place. I don't feel sorry for him. I got a kick out of the story.
And there are greater tragedies than a 19 year old not having a car.
Updated On: 1/9/08 at 01:24 PM
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:26pm
And I'd rather not be told to get a clue. Please don't talk down to me. I'm sorry, i didn't see the part about the two rules. I did follow the link, and read most.
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:27pm
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:28pm
In 2006, an estimated 17,602 people died in alcohol-related traffic crashes—an average of one every 30 minutes.
VM, I'd say that's a pretty bad thing. And I'll bet that every mother, father, sister, brother, friend, grandparent, aunt, uncle and cousin of anyone who has been hurt or killed by an alcohol-related accident would agree.
Get MADD!
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:31pm
I was just coming from my point of view, whether it's wrong or not. I'm 16 years old. I don't drink, I never have, and I've decided that I never will. If I wanted to, however, I could, no problem. My friends all drink, and it irritates me. Seeing 15 and 16 year olds drunk is not funny. Having to clean up after them is even less fun.
Furthermore, I come from a family which hass been affected by alcahol problems at various different times, so I know what it feels like from both ends.
I'm just saying that I've seen people my age fall apart on drugs, hurt themsleves, do awful things. And I've seen them drunk, and I'd much sooner have them pissed than high. That said, most of my friends can't drive yet, so that may not be relevant then.
Apologies.
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:41pm
And with all of that 'experience', do you still think what the mother has done is wrong, or do you think she's being too hard?
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:43pm
I'm not advocating drink driving, or alcholism, I just for some reason didn't think it was the right course of action. However, I hadn't seen that the mother's rules were about no alcohol.
deep-delving, dark, deliberate you would say
browsing on spire and bogland; but today
our sky-blue slates are steaming in the sun,
our yachts tinkling and dancing in the bay
like racehorses. We contemplate at last
shining windows, a future forbidden to no one.
Derek Mahon
"Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets."
Arthur Miller
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:45pm
That's why I was all, like, you know, HUH?!
Here's a hug.
*Hug*
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:46pm

I'll take that 'draconian' parenting over this tragedy any day.
edited to add: as long as it makes you stop and think, VM, that's a good thing...
Updated On: 1/9/08 at 01:46 PM
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:47pm
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:49pm
I guess that brings it all home.
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:52pm
Posted: 1/9/08 at 1:58pm
Posted: 1/9/08 at 2:03pm
Posted: 1/9/08 at 2:06pm
Posted: 1/9/08 at 2:41pm
Or the ones who scream, "My child would NEVER do that!"
That's the reason this story made me happy!
Posted: 1/9/08 at 5:49pm
I love those parents who have perfect children who never do anything wrong and everyone just puts the blame on them "for no reason!" puh-leeze.
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