I wanted to post because I recall someone citing the Lawrence case of 2003. First of all, I wouldnt be too worried about it. (Especially when looking into Justice O'Connor's special concurrence, I think they can't backtrack on that one.)
Here is my spiel. I know there is a lot of anger here among the gay community and that makes sense to me. But, the thing is, it all seems to be pinned on President Bush. Senators Kerry and Edwards both stated they, too, were against gay marriage. The 11 state amendments that just passed, in addition to the other pre-existing ones, show that its not just the right-wingers against same-sex marriage. I understand this is frustrating but I do not presume to know exactly what it feels like.
This is the way I see it. Society right now, NOT just republicans, is uncomfortable with gay marriage. From a political standpoint, the best course of action would now be a push for more equal recognition of civil unions. People are far less threatened by unions. If unions can gain more legal credibility, it will be a step towards society getting more accustomed to the idea. This is going to have to be a gradual change in the very core of the collective societal mind. I know it doesnt sound fun, but I see it being the reality.
Another thought to consider: I think that as the younger generations become more mature and politically-minded, you will find a public more in support of these rights. You are going to find that young republicans are in support of civil unions, against amendments, etc. Of my well-informed Republican friends, none of them all close-minded as you would define it. Dont automatically consider republicans to be against you.
As AdGal stated in another thread, she learned that you must do much more than just vote if you truly want change. I know this is a sensitive subject and VERY personal for many of you, but I now believe that if you truly want this, it is now your job to mobilize. Get out there and do what you can to open minds. Don't yell, scream, and complain... present yourselves well.
Dont allow yourselves to be driven by anger. Use your passion to make a change. It is going to take steps, but it can be done.
Does this make sense? I tried to dissect it as a matter of political strategy.
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