I Enjoy Being A Girl- Page 119

[Madcap Maisie]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 9:35am

Updated On: 6/11/20 at 09:35 AM

[25th Annual Speller]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 9:36am

Schermg... You just need to talk to him about it. I know it sounds hard, but it's really the best thing. Or talk to some of his friends. That always works too.

[clever name]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 9:45am

He wears a Twilight T-shirt. That's all you need to know. Let him come out when he wants to. That should be his decision to talk about it. And DO NOT talk to his friends about it!!.. just my opinion, though :)

[withoutlovewithoutU]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 9:54am

I had a massive crush on my best friend and was convinced that he had a thing for me too.... turned out he's gay. I found this out by finally telling him how I felt, and he told me that he loves me but he's gay. He's still my best friend and talk to him every week.

We all seem to get in these similar situations!

[Shannon Bo Dannon]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 10:59am

Speller- I'm so happy for you!!

I'm in love with my best friend..I'm pretty sure he's not gay. You never know though. =]

[lusciouslace]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 12:34pm

Ohhh withoutu...sounds exactly like my situation. I took 3 years for him to tell me but he did and we've worked through it and we are so close now. We tell each other I love you now, but we know that it means something much deeper than before, but it's in a different way.

Schmerg, I would say let it continue to be a rumor if that's what it is. It sounds like you're not interested in him that way, so what's the point of stirring up trouble for him or yourself. As my director said the other day...sometimes it's best to just let sleeping dogs lie.

[justagirl2]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 2:52pm

Schmerg, I agree with Luscious. It doesn't seem as if you're falling all over yourself about this guy, so I wouldn't disrupt anything if it's not necessary.

I'd say a Twilight shirt is a pretty good indicator, though! I've been blessed with an extremely accurate gaydar, and in my (vast) experience I've learned that when I have a really strong feeling about someone's sexuality, I'm usually right. It's all about intuition, so it's likely that you're right but he isn't ready to come out. But don't push it.

That said, I've been in love with a ton of gays...but I've always known they were gay going in. I'm not sure what that says about me, hahaha!

[blondebaby589]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 3:10pm

That said, I've been in love with a ton of gays...but I've always known they were gay going in. I'm not sure what that says about me, hahaha!

LOL Jag I do the same thing a lot of the time. Or there are the ones that claim to be bi, but they're only really like 5% straight haha

[lusciouslace]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 3:16pm

Yeah I crush on them all the time too! I think part of it because they're safe. I KNOW they're not gonna like me like that, so there's no rejection. It's just fun.

Plus gay men freakin' love me. Straight men...ehhh not so much. My new director says "OMG you're so cute" after pretty much everything I say. And one of my producers who I HEART tells me I'm pretty everytime I see him. Those two are goooooood for my self-esteem

[StockardFan]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 3:28pm

Good afternoon girls! I'm off to karate!

[killertofu333]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 3:29pm

Oh my gosh you guys are cracking me the HELL up!!!! I have always said this to my straight girlfriends: "Gay men are your Achilles heel. You fall in love with them because it's unavoidable."

For god's sake, I'm gay and I LURV gay men. They're fantastic!!! Some can be just as bitchy as girls and be just as good looking. I don't know what it is about a man that can tweez his eyebrows and use moisturizer like a pro, but gay men are fabulous. Don't get me wrong I obviously love the ladies...but when it comes to the opposite sex I always go after the gays (in a strictly non-sexual way). It seems to me that they're just as attentive as women and just genuinely caring and good people to be around. I've been known to do some heavy duty snuggling on the couch with my gay friends...which is great because I know they don't want me in that way and vice versa. If you've never cuddled on the couch with the gays I highly recommend it!!

Updated On: 3/10/09 at 03:29 PM

[blondebaby589]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 3:46pm

My sister once put it to me like this:

"You're Grace from 'Will and Grace'. You waste all your time falling for gay men in your twenties, you have crazy hair and little boobs, you think you're funny a lot of the time when you're not, you eat all the time, you sing obnoxiously..."

I had her stop because I realized it wasn't a compliment anymore LOL

[lusciouslace]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 4:42pm

BB- LMAO

Tofu- I agree...snuggling with our gay boys is the best!

[killertofu333]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 5:29pm

BB, I must say that your last post literally made my day!! I think I'll have to print that on a T-shirt.

Your sister is f*cking hilarious!!!!

[StockardFan]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 5:39pm

BB, that post was awesome!

[Schmerg_The_Impaler]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 6:28pm

Blondebaby, I snorted...

Oh, believe me, I'm not into this kid, it's just that a friend keeps trying to get us together, and whenever I say that I know he doesn't like me like that, she doesn't listen. I just wanted to know if it would be tactless to say that I don't think he likes girls.

I've never been attracted to any confirmed gay dudes, but I've known some who I swear are me in guy disguise!

[StockardFan]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 6:52pm

I used to be friendly with this guy named Franc. He was a French hairdresser. I'm pretty sure he was gay, but he was GORGEOUS. Tan, great body, crystal blue-green eyes, Michael Hutchence type hair.

*sigh*

I waited forever for him to make a move on me but he never did. 'Course he might just not have found me attractive in that way.

[withoutlovewithoutU]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 6:58pm

HI girls!!

I am having the best day! I had a 6 hour Grease Fest today and it was so fun and productive! I knew it was going to be good when our Danny walked into rehearsal in the full black jeans, white shirt, leather jacket-ness and said "lets do this thing!" with a huge smile! I love our cast so much! I got home and checked my mail and found two issues of lucky, some chocolates from my dad, and my grant check for $500!!!!! I can get my new laptop! Wooo!

[justagirl2]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 6:59pm

blonde, LOL!

Stockard, he sounds super hot. But French AND a hairdresser? The odds were against your favor from the start, babe.

[Weez]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 7:03pm

Schmergy - then fall back on my favourite ambiguous statement for this scenario!

"It's not going to happen; I'm not his type."

Then even if he does turn out to like girls, odds are good you'll be covered.

[StockardFan]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 7:06pm

LOL, jag! I know, but a girl can always dream..........

OK, so I was just watching this video with my ex-boyfriend's brother and his wife. He's so artsy now. I swear he wasn't like that in high school or even college. When did he get so artsy?

[danmag]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 7:10pm

Stockard, I think I dated the guy you are describing, except his name was Marcus. And I'm sure he was gay. But damn, was he gorgeous...

[25th Annual Speller]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 7:27pm

BB- That pretty much made my day.

Withoutlove- I'm glad you had a great day. It's so wonderful and refreshing when you just get that feeling that your whole day was amazing.


Last year a new kid moved to school and I immediately was attracted to him when I saw him. He was new to our theatre department. The first time I heard him talk though I said in my head "he's gay." Apparently every-one else in the theatre department was blind to his gay-ness and had a bet going for how long it would be until we were dating. We're still good friends and whenever we think back to the beginning of last year it's just funny that people thought we would date.

[withoutlovewithoutU]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 8:21pm

One of my Grease girl made me the prettiest bracelet today... thought I would share!

[clever name]

Posted: 3/10/09 at 8:27pm

aww, that's cute, wu. Perfect for St. Patrick's!