I Enjoy Being A Girl- Page 34

[withoutlovewithoutU]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 9:18am

That dress sounds divine Emcee!! I beautiful dress or a gorgeous pair of shoes always makes me feel better! I really hope you get it!

[lusciouslace]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 9:52am

Weez- Thanks! :) I like them, too. My eye doctor asked if I've considered lasik surgery and I said no cause glasses are sort of my trademark. I've had funky glasses since I was 15.

Tofu- Well...I'll do my best not entice you. :)

As to the subject of falling in love with gay guys...ohhhh my gosh yeah. I was totally head over heels with a guy for a long time. Even after it was established that we would just be friends, I still had it in the back of my mind. Especially because we make such a great team. FINALLY after three years he admitted that he's gay. But he's still not completely out to most of the people in his life and he told me this three years ago. He's denied it for 14 years. Makes me sad, but he's working on coming out to his friends right now. For those of you with my FB he's the one in the pictures at the baseball game where I have the baseball cap on.

[lusciouslace]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 10:04am

Okay...I've decided I have more to say...lol.

About the loving gay guys- Everybody knows that I'm a lover of those boys. Some have used the term Fag Hag, which I hate. I'm not a hag...I'm a fairy princess. I've heard there's a new term, but I haven't heard what it is yet. But yes, I find it hard not to crush on them sometimes. Grrr...

Also, I've totally figured out what is wrong with the guys here in the DC area. If they're not crazy/weirdos (which a lot of them are), then they're trigger shy. By that I mean that they'll flirt with you, tell you that you're hot or sexy or whatever, say oh we should totally hang out sometime, but they will not pull the trigger and actually ask for the number or make the date. They just don't do it. It's like every single one wants the chick to do it. Guess what...I'm not doing it. I mean if I REALLY like the guy and he gets that far, maybe. But I very rarely really like anybody, usually it's just some random dude. I'm not doing it. If you want to see me again, you'll have to ask for my number or something.

Happened last night. I was at a 7/11 and this pretty attractive guy was flirting with me. And not even being subtle about it. He actually outright said, "Hey cutie, oh I can't flirt too much with you, I see you're married." When I explained that I was just wearing a ring on that finger and I'm not married he came outside to talk to me a little longer. He said we should hang out sometime and then he pointed to where he works (which was across the street) and said well you know where to find me. Seriously dude??

[Jane2]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 10:07am

I'm out the door ladies-see ya later!

[danmag]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 10:15am

Luscious, that would make me crazy. I know that if I had to go back into the dating world, I would just say f*ck it and stay home and watch tv. Crazy boys....

It's sunny and 60 degrees here today - I'm headed outside to work on my tan.

[Weez]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 10:17am

I'd never have laser surgery on my eyes. My vision is terrible, but I actually kinda dig the Blur-O-Vision. I can wear my glasses so I can see properly, I have contact lenses for when I want to see properly without wearing glasses, and when I want Blur-O-Vision (which is handy for Magic Eye stereograms if nothing else, but can bring new levels of perception and appreciation to looking at art works), I just skip glasses and lenses. Really, it's only two seconds of hassle to put glasses on, thirty seconds to put contact lenses in, and I'm not paying thousands of pounds to have someone shine lasers in my eyes. I really can't visualise any circumstances - short of "LASER SURGERY OR DEATH!" - where I would change my mind. *shrugs*

Rant over. ^_^

[StockardFan]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 10:58am

This thread is making me mental! There are like 25 conversations at once!

Miss P, I'm thinking of coming down during Henry's spring break. It starts on the 9th and ends on the 19th. So somewhere in there. My mom lives way out by Leesburg and I'd probably stay with her part of the time, and with my dad in West Springfield the rest of the time. We definitely should get together!

danmag, I'm so jealous. It's cold again here today. Although alot of the snow melted yesterday. You can actually see patches of grass, and you can actually tell that there is a pool in the backyard, even though it looks like you could ice skate on it.

[lusciouslace]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 11:10am

Yeah, I'm not sure I'm really excited about the idea of someone lifting a layer of my eyeball to put a laser into it, when I can just wear cute glasses. Maybe when I'm older...i don't know.

danmag- I know...they're dumb! I would think that living in DC where a lot of people are very ambitious and goal-oriented, the guys wouldn't be afraid to go after what they want. But not so. Well...that or they aren't afraid and they're totally jackasses. The last one that did actually make the full connection...wow he was a d**k and no that doesn't say dork. :) He came up to me in the grocery store and was cute and we flirted. He gave me his card (which is still putting the onus on me). So I emailed him the next day and he sort of just emailed back and forth for a couple days. But when we had our first conversation we ended up arguing because he attacked me and my beliefs when it comes to faith. Are you serious? I assumed he wouldn't call for the date the next day and he didn't. He texted me to say meet me at this restaurant at this time. Seriously? So I thought I would be an adult and call him and tell him why I didn't want to go out with him. I hindsight I realize I should have just stood him up. I told him that I found some red flags in our conversation and I think it would be best if we just called it even and forgot about the date. He went on to attack me further by telling me that I'm obviously an insecure prude and that he wouldn't want me anyway because he needs a strong confident woman. By the end of the "conversation" I told him that I was done with this and I'm not going to fight with someone that I couldn't care less about and he told me "Well I hope for your sake that you can get over your issues and find some sort of confidence so that you can live a decent life." And then he hung up.

FOR REAL? I just laughed...but seriously?

[Madcap Maisie]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 11:21am

Updated On: 6/11/20 at 11:21 AM

[killertofu333]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 11:33am

I really can't visualise any circumstances - short of "LASER SURGERY OR DEATH!" - where I would change my mind. *shrugs*

Weez, I'm with you. My glasses are my thing, and I don't think I would ever have surgery on my eyes. While it's a pain in the ass to switch back and forth from contacts to sunglass to eyeglasses I still love 'em. Besides, my black frames make me look even smarter despite that fact that I'm already a genius. *throws modesty out the window*

[danmag]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 11:33am

On a happy note, my children are finally getting to the age where I can use them as servants. I just sat on the back porch and watched them pick up a winter's worth of sticks, pine cones, dog poop, etc.

It was freaking awesome!

[Madcap Maisie]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 11:37am

Updated On: 6/11/20 at 11:37 AM

[danmag]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 11:38am

The job just needed to be done!!! And I'm a little bit of a sadist.

[StockardFan]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 11:42am

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! Henry is driving me nuts. He just ate a huge bowl of Lucky Charms and now he's bugging me for lunch.

So I say "What do you want?" He says McDonalds. Um. No.

[Madcap Maisie]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 11:44am

Updated On: 6/11/20 at 11:44 AM

[StockardFan]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 11:47am

Yeah, well he had McDonald's yesterday, and didn't like the toy in his happy meal, so thats why he wants to go again today, to see if he can get a different toy.

Yeah, I always want just ketchup and pickles, and my husband gets so pissed at me.

[Madcap Maisie]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 11:53am

I'm craving Chik-fil-A...

but they are closed on Sunday

Do you have Chik-fil-A in NY?

[StockardFan]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 12:14pm

No but we did in Northern Virginia. I love me some Chic-fil-a. I'm surprised they are closed Sunday?

[clever name]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 12:16pm

We dont have Chik-fil-a in NY. At least I can't find one. When we go home to California we make a Chik stop. That and Pollo Loco which I miss like CRAZY!!

Im so happy the weather is nice today. YAY!!!!! I know I'm totally late on this, but we are finally seeing In The Heights.

[Madcap Maisie]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 12:28pm

Updated On: 6/11/20 at 12:28 PM

[lusciouslace]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 12:36pm

You probably crave them cause you know you can't have it that day. It's like my friend just said to me. She wants to go to the mall but she has no money so she can't buy anything. That's always the way! I only want to shop when I really can't. :)

[StockardFan]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 12:39pm

My friend told me they have a bunch of really cute sweater dresses on sale at Marshall's. She said she got one for $15. I have a stupid thing to go to Saturday so I might go over there. Or I might wear something I already have. Haha....

[Jane2]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 12:45pm

Back from shooting, and I think it's around 60 degrees! I went over to the east village and shot grafitti, signs, sotres, and buildings. and some dogs.

Hey, I'm I allowed to stay here if I'm not a "girly" girl? LOL, I must confess I don't care too much about frills, clothes, shoes, decorating, lace, etc. But I'm still a girl! ok?

As for the eye surgery-I like the idea, but I'm too afraid. I would never risk losing my sight. And I think I'm one of those people who look better in glasses, to be frank.

[luvtheEmcee]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 12:47pm

I don't have plans to be anywhere until later, but I should go out just for the sake of the weather. Right now I'm still in bed.

[StockardFan]

Posted: 2/8/09 at 12:48pm

Jane, we love having you here! As long as you don't mind our goofy discussions!