shh, I wrote something similar for a class I had freshman year. I loved that course and had a lot of fun writing that paper!
Maisie, it depends. I know that's a sketchy answer, but it really does. For me, it was a little uncomfortable because the guy was pretty well-endowed. I just asked my roommate, though, and she said her guy was on the smaller side of average and it didn't hurt at all. And this girl used to freak out over using tampons. Even with me, though, the pain was by no means excruciating and only lasted a couple minutes in the beginning (but that's probably because, without getting too lewd, my friend had bought me a vibrator prior to the deed. So that helped). Honestly, the important thing is to do it with someone you trust, who will take it slow if you say it hurts, go at your own pace and respect you.
Alright, ladies, I'm off to go nerd-hunting at the Renaissance Festival. Catch all of you later! <3
Updated On: 10/10/09 at 11:48 AM