I Enjoy Being a Girl Vol 2! — Page 8

L, I was with a bi guy for a little. But it turned out he was like 90% gay and 10% straight, sooo that didn't last for very long LOL

And I have to agree about Olivier. Wow. That scene in the cafe where they're having sex in the bathroom that they don't show on TV, yeah.

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Yeah there's all different types of people, but in my case it was that he really liked my personality but was physically attracted to men more so than women. We're still really good friends, but I would never get myself involved with him like that again.

But best of luck finding one like that! Pass him over to me when you're done.

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My theory is that everyone is completely different from everyone else when it comes to their own personal sexuality. Piano, I think in a lot of cases you're right. But I think that some people are truly attracted to both men and women. There's so much gray area to sexuality it's amazing.

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Haha that sounds exactly like the guy I was talking about. Really, exactly. I don't fully understand either (which is also probably because I'm not attracted to both sexes), but as long as they're happy then that's fine by me.

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I sort of always figure if a guy is bi, he really likes boys. If a girl is bi, she really likes boys, too.

YAY, an issue I can almost weigh in on. I have no idea how bisexuality works in the gay male realm, but for gay women it may be different. Like L said if a girl is bi, she really likes boys too, at least that's what would always be in the back of my mind if I was involved with a bisexual girl. I always used to think that being bisexual was just a way to have your cake and eat it too without people calling you a dirty whoring slag. But I could be wrong .

My theory is that there is no such thing as being "bisexual" its mainly just a phase where the person doesn't want to fully come out as gay yet.

And Piano I actually agree with you on this front, mainly because I did the same damn thing. When I came out to my best friend (he's gay too, and we came out to each other at the same time) I thought I was ready to tell him that I was into girls, but at the last minute I chickened out and told him I was bi. As the words poured from my lips all I could think was "OMG, you're such a fraud!! You don't like guys you idiot, you like girls and that's it!!" As some might say I used being bi as an excuse or a stepping stone to really help myself come to terms with my own sexuality. In reality it made me feel even worse because I had lied to my best friend and continued that lie within myself. A week later I fessed up and told him the whole truth. He told me he figured out I was gay way back in Senior year when I performed at our school's talent show/coffee house. Apparently after I sang and played my guitar he noticed how flushed and giddy I looked when a really strikingly beautiful girl complimented and hugged me afterward. I wish he had let me know...it would have saved me a lot of time crying in my pillow.

Since we all seem to have theories regarding sexuality I'll throw mine into the mix. My theory is: Everyone's straight until they're NOT!! Thus why some lesbians (still hate that word) like the thrill of the chase and may go after exclusively straight women. Maybe I'm just lazy or I'm getting too old for that "chasing" business, but I'd rather go out with someone who won't feel "weird" afterward. Just too much DRAMA for Tofu. If I know good an well you're NOT gay, bi, pan, omni or whatever, I'll just be a really good friend and an even better drinking partner for you. Other than that it's a no-go for "Fun Land".

Finis

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Schmerg, that dress is stunning. And I loved Meg from Hercules, not to mention Lillias White was a muse from the movie YAY!!!

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Updated On: 5/14/09 at 04:39 PM

Very pretty, Schmerg!

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Schmerg!! Wow that's pretty!! :)

Tofu- Question for you. What are your thoughts about straight girls crushing on lesbians? I've heard some people say that it happens a lot. Any thoughts?

One of my closest friends has identified as a lesbian for years, but she fell head over heels for a guy. In the meanwhile, though, she's dating a straight girl who is famous for dating basically every guy in the school and who dozens of guys have broken up with their girlfriends for because they like her better. She just went through a bad breakup, so she decided to go out with a girl for awhile to take a break from the whole dating thing.

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Tofu, you are such a wise young woman. You certainly seem to have your sh*t together.

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Schmerg - LOVE the dress!
Today is a good day.... got off work an hour early because I unpacked, sorted, and priced a massive box of plaques, a really hot guy came into the store and was totally hitting on me, and Neil Patrick Harris is hosting the Tony's!!

About the whole bi thing... a big part of me feels like love is love, and everybody has the capacity to fall for just about anyone..... like you really don't choose who you love. *sigh* But some people aren't as comfortable with that notion and don't want those labels put on them. It's sad really. It's like, just love who you love and if there is a label that goes with that....deal with it! (Man I am such a hippy).

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If it only has one olive?

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