I think Groff's got a tough part -- playing someone so hopelessly maladroit can't be easy at the best of times, and his considerable physical charms can't be helping, the expectation that someone so gorgeous would have better social skills only makes it more difficult when it comes to sheer believability.
The cringe factor on the show is pretty severe -- are these guys going to make a single decision that isn't stupid, mortifying, or potentially catastrophic? Well, it seems that Patrick has, at least at the end of the third episode...
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