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#1

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

I could not care less about sports and even I knew the heartbreaking story of Manti Te'o's girlfriend: he was a Notre Dame Football player, she a very unlucky beautiful young girl. theirs a fairy tale romance. Literally.

Notre Dame's Manti Te'o, the stories said, played this season under a terrible burden. A Mormon linebacker who led his Catholic school's football program back to glory, Te'o was whipsawed between personal tragedies along the way. In the span of six hours in September, as Sports Illustrated told it, Te'o learned first of the death of his grandmother, Annette Santiago, and then of the death of his girlfriend, Lennay Kekua.

Kekua, 22 years old, had been in a serious car accident in California, and then had been diagnosed with leukemia. SI's Pete Thamel described how Te'o would phone her in her hospital room and stay on the line with her as he slept through the night. "Her relatives told him that at her lowest points, as she fought to emerge from a coma, her breathing rate would increase at the sound of his voice," Thamel wrote.

But there is no SSA record there of the death of Lennay Marie Kekua, that day or any other. Her passing, recounted so many times in the national media, produces no obituary or funeral announcement in Nexis, and no mention in the Stanford student newspaper.

Nor is there any report of a severe auto accident involving a Lennay Kekua. Background checks turn up nothing. The Stanford registrar's office has no record that a Lennay Kekua ever enrolled. There is no record of her birth in the news. Outside of a few Twitter and Instagram accounts, there's no online evidence that Lennay Kekua ever existed.

The photographs identified as Kekua—in online tributes and on TV news reports—are pictures from the social-media accounts of a 22-year-old California woman who is not named Lennay Kekua. She is not a Stanford graduate; she has not been in a severe car accident; and she does not have leukemia. And she has never met Manti Te'o.
Catfished? Or beard?
#3

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

I first heard the tale in a Sports Illustrated cover story in my doctor's waiting room. The Chicago tribune today remarked (without comment) that they themselves had published 15 stories about Lennay Kekua without ever checking to see if she actually existed.
#4

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

He's either an utter moron or a liar -- or some combination of the two.

So, when she died, he made no attempt to attend the funeral? Contact the family to send flowers? Find out where the grave was going to be? Had he been the victim of a cruel hoax, shouldn't it have unraveled right there?

Several years ago, a friend of mine in an online-only relationship had the guy suddenly "die" on him, and he was able to figure out pretty quickly at that point that the guy had been full of crap all along. And he was a lot less invested in it than this guy supposedly was.
#6

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

Most of my football obsessive friends (as am I but these are the broiest of bros) are honestly hoping that he is either a victim of a hoax (this is growing unlikely with so many contradictions) or that he is gay and set up an elaborate plan to get his teammates and families off his back with some long-distance fake girlfriend that no longer served use to him since he graduated, so he killed her off. I mean he is a Hawaiian Island Polynesian Mormon who plays football at a major Catholic institution. That's a lot of institutionalized homophobia going against one person. And honestly, the other option is that he is an absolute lunatic. Nobody wants to think that somebody that talented and supposedly smart is creating these imaginary people he passes off for real people.

My question is why would Notre Dame have a press conference that backs up Te'o yet walks back his characterization of the relationship that he talked to her on the phone and went into detail about her physical beauty without meeting her? This despite reports they met 3 years ago at a Stanford-Notre Dame game that was published in the papers. Nobody in Te'o's camp or Notre Dame's media department seemed to want to walk back these statements when they supposedly had an investigation at the beginning of December and around Christmas knew it was a hoax, yet still kept the 'dead girlfriend' story alive for Te'o when he was interviewed by national media in the national championship game. Were they part of the cover-up or just were hoping the moment they found out that it would go away with no consequence despite no records of a death certificate or obituary available for any media?

Notre Dame, after reporting of the last few years of the athletic department protecting more than one player from rape allegations, looks pretty bad when an AD is crying to the press about their player's privacy being violated when they continued to perpetuate a hoax.
#7

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

He's a Mormon. As the disabled lesbian minister tells the Mormon woman in "The Most Fabulous Story Ever Told": "I love you guys! You'll believe anything!"

Take one part really, really, really stupid jock; one part Mormon need for inspirational stories; one Internet troll and voila!
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#8

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

The national sports media has really been awful for a while. It's like the worst elements of political and entertainment journalism had a baby. Usually there would be smart writers like Richard Ben Cramer, Hunter S. Thompson, Ralph Wiley, and David Halberstam did sports that related to culture and that has sort of all gone to their graves sadly.

It does not shock me that even a TMZ level of a website like Deadspin could out-wit the likes of ESPN who seem to want 'personalities' and 'pretty faces' over journalists.

That said the national news like CBS News and other major network media outlets also did stories on the dead girlfriend with absolutely no fact-checking.

Updated On: 1/17/13 at 01:53 PM

#9

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

This "relationship" was the center of a massive media blitz either by Manti or Notre Dame. Massive. Huge. There were thousands of stories about this guy and his perfect relationship.

I do giggle at the idea this is somehow a blot on Notre Dame's pristine reputation. You'd have to ask the Gipper about that.
#10

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

Wait Strummer do you think Deadspin created the hoax girl? They may be TMZ level but they were the only ones who actually investigated this story and broke the news.
#11

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

'Hoodwinked' was not the right word and although I am instantly skeptical about what Deadspin reports, no way they are that evil and elaborate.

There was also somebody on twitter who seemed to find twitter accounts who knew Te'o who knew the girlfriend's twitter was a fake.
#12

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

This might be the greatest sports ever! I am obsessed with it. I might quite my job and spend the next six months investigating.

One of the many interesting issues did his male friends ever ask him how was the sex with his girlfriend?
#13

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

He had the Mormon/Twilight virginity escape clause! That's why the Mormonism is key to every aspect of this story.
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#14

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

I must confess- I picked up the Sports Illustrated because the picture of him was SMOKING HOT. I'd be his fake girlfriend any time.
#15

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

Namo, you are correct. I am not a ND fan, we will likely learn of a cover up high up the admin chain.
#16

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

Ah, I never even considered an ND connection in this story!

Think about it though, the media clings on these supposed "feel good/heart wrenching" stories. Just look at all the talent-related reality shows and the focus on those with sad stories to tell. The person with the saddest story gets the most exposure. The media is just as guilty, especially if they didn't do any fact checking.


Hey Dottie! Did your colleagues enjoy the cake even though your cat decided to sit on it? ~GuyfromGermany

Updated On: 1/17/13 at 02:20 PM

#17

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

I have not seen any footage of Teo stating that he ever was with her physically or ever met her.
#18

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

I don't think that was ever asked. I've seen him say he "met" her but people "meet" online all the time these days.
#19

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

http://espn.go.com/college-football/story/_/id/8851033/story-manti-teo-girlfriend-death-apparently-hoax

"The South Bend Tribune reported that on Oct. 10 during a taped interview with Brian Te'o and Manti Te'o's mother Ottillia, the father said that his son and Kekua met in person after a Notre Dame-Stanford game in 2009 in Palo Alto, Calif."

Video (go to 2:22):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QF21-7PdqO8

And they supposedly talked on the phone 8 hours a day that also included him sleeping with his phone on and her on the other line.
#20

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

SG, I have seen that. The father could be a part of this. Hype for the Heisman race - which award could have changed his life.

If Teo is not a part of the hoax, then his credibility is destroyed. The NFL might hesitate to invest millions on a naive simpleton.
#21

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

I don't seek out pro football player interviews, but of those I've heard, the ones who were *not* simpletons are the exceptions.
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#22

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

This seems to me a huge media blitz designed to make this guy a top-tier sports celebrity. Like I said I do not follow football but I heard about THIS guy. It worked a little too well I think.
#24

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

Okay, google image search this Lennay Kekua. Boy was seriously imaginary dating Elphaba.
Art has a double face, of expression and illusion.
#25

Manti Te'o's girlfriend who died in Canada

He didn't go there to make friends. He went there to win the reality competition of his life. He hopes the rest of the house guests see what a great game he played and why he deserves to win.
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